Steven Sanders

🧵 11 sleep tips from an insomniac: Simple tips that will help you get the best night's sleep since you were a kid. 1. Go to bed on time every single night. • The body loves consistency. • The body rewards consistency. • I have one alarm for "get ready for bed" and another one for "get in the bed." • We'll explore these below. 👇 2. Aim for 8 hours of sleep. • You may need a little more. • You may need a little less. • Plan for 8, and then can adjust as needed. • Eventually, you'll get to the point where you'll just wake up without an alarm clock. 3. Wake up at the same time every single day. • Actually get out of the bed. • Turn on some lights, go use the restroom, do a lap or two around your living space to get the blood flowing, drink some water to rehydrate. • Even better, go outside for some fresh air and sunlight. • Moving the body and introducing stimulus is what will wake you up. It will get easier. 4. Exercise. • Similar to the mind, the body has a "use it or lose it" bias. • Do something every single day. • Stretch, lift, try to get 10,000 steps in. • Your body will adjust and remember that sleep is the best time to recover. This will train it to look forward to going to sleep on time. 5. Coffee. • Try avoid this during the first hour of being awake. • You want your body to be able to do its wake-up thing all by itself. • Learn what your tolerance is, and then try to stay a half-cup or more below that sweet spot. • No coffee after noon. Adjust this benchmark based on your sleep needs and tolerance levels. 6. Wind down. • This is my "get ready for bed" alarm. • Mine is set 45 minutes before the "get in the bed" alarm. Adjust as needed. • We want to slow things down and get the body prepped for sleep. • Things to do: dim the lights/ turn the overhead ones off, take a warm bath or shower, read, avoid bright/ blue light, meditate, do deep breathing, turn the thermostat down (see tip 8 below)... Do whatever will help calm down and relax the mind and body. 7. Go to bed. • This is the "go to bed" alarm. PRO TIP: make it soft but audible. You don't want to introduce a sudden stimulus here. • Actually go get in your bed. Be horizontal. Head on the pillow, covers up. • Things to do: close your eyes and relax, listen to rain or ocean sounds, breathe deeply and slowly, imagine your body relaxing from your head down to your toes. • If your thoughts are too much, ask yourself slowly, "I wonder what my next thought will be?" Imagine yourself asking this in a very sleepy voice. If you yawn, you're doing it right. 8. Sleep hygiene. • Make your bed specifically for sleep (and activities with a partner of your choice). No eating in bed. No tv in bed. No phone in the bed. No clocks (that you can see) in the bedroom. • Do whatever you need to to make your bed comfortable. It may be time for a new set of sheets or even a new mattress. • Use blackout curtains for the windows. Total darkness is ideal. • Keep the temperature at approximately 18C or 65F, and use heavy blankets. The body naturally cools when it sleeps, and this will help that process to happen. • Do not eat anything 3 hours before bed. • Do not drink anything 2 hours before bed. (A sip of water with nighttime medication is fine.) 9. What if it goes wrong? • Do not panic or watch the clock. Do not pick up your phone. • Slowly stretch your whole body from head to toe. You may have some stress to release. • Focus on slow and deep breathing. • If all else fails, go to the bathroom, and then go read in another room for a little while. When you begin to feel sleepy, go back to bed. 10. Maintenance. • Consistency is your friend, and your body will reward this. • Set your two alarms and be strict on keeping them. • Keep a journal at the beginning to make adjustments as needed. (Maybe you need less sleep than your thought, maybe 45 minutes between alarms isn't enough time to wind down.) • Know that it is hard to make a new habit in the beginning. It will get easier over time. 11. Sleep aids. • There is a time and place for sleep aids, but in general, we do not want to become reliant on them. • If you need 5mg of over the counter Melatonin in the beginning, take it with your "get ready for bed" alarm. Note that you may have to adjust the timing on this, just like you may have to adjust the space between those two bedtime alarms. • I go through phases where I need this on the nights before my 9-5. • Do not take them on other days. You want to train your body to get ready for bed by itself, and you do not want to become resistant to this when you may need it in the future. What do you think? Did I miss anything? Be sure to follow for more content like this. 👉 @SLSanders88🧵 And please let me know if you'd be interested in learning more about this in greater detail. 🙏

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