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#JOON: oppa.. take that 양동이 off rightnow


Well we're halfway there...and you're doing pretty well joonie♥️ (also namjoon getting praised for his words makes me so happy😌😭)


Joon about loneliness, marriage, kids 🐨: Since that's kind of the atmosphere these days, everyone is pressured about marriage, tbh there are some realistic aspects to it but; 🐨: Especially for the women, either about kids or some other issues. I think society and the media keep putting pressure on us. 🐨: I just hope you live according to your way. There is no single right answer. 🐨: In my opinion, if you can't bear spending time alone will getting married make it better? 🐨: Even if you get married, you might still want to spend time alone again since human is fickle 🐨: I think someone who can be fine on their own can also be fine when they’re with someone and vice versa 🐨: And so, to choose marriage to solve my loneliness is a bit.. yeah 🐨: Also the thing I'm not really sure of about kids, 🐨: Tbh taking care of myself is already overwhelming, and to think about taking care of a new life.. and actually, kids don't always turn out the way you wanted to don't they 🐨: To think about how much I gave my parents a hard time when I was young, if say I had a child like me auuhh how frustrating would it be. Ofc they could be lovable too but,, 🐨: Hence, there is no single right answer.


🐨 I'm honestly a bit scared still, I want to pretend to be strong, I could go "I don't give a fuck" "I don't care 'bout anything" "what can you even do to me? Hahaha" but I'm not like that. I'm still weak, anxious, and get hurt a lot +







