Kate 🐿️

“Body count” is an incredibly crude and ultimately unhelpful metric covering for a very real problem: the trauma that people, both men and women, can accrue in bad relationships, regardless of the number of sexual partners. #relationships #dating #redpill #mentalhealth #trauma

@misssomething__ It’s not the golden age yet. This is the indefinite catastrophic growing pains necessary to get to the golden age. It’s always just out of reach, but soon.

Totally the golden age everyone.

@dietrichBonh @HazelAppleyard So he intentionally forced her to remain in the conditions he claims to have been concerned about? How does that make sense?

Let’s steel man him for a second. He says it’s too cold and wife disagrees. To the husband he probably feels it’s too cold outside for his family. I think that comes from a place of genuine concern. He thought he’d teach her to take his concerns more seriously(even op admits she brushed him off). I’m not saying he’s right I’m saying that was probably his thought process. Wife was wrong for dismissing him but that in no way makes lockijg them out ok. OP says he’s not abusive and has never done anything like this. No pattern. It seems like he just wanted her to take his concerns more seriously but went about it in a very wrong way.

He LOCKED his 6-month-pregnant wife outside IN THE SNOW for 25 minutes to punish her for… taking their daughters out to play in the snow???? WTF????

I need people to understand that about 60% of homeless people are employed but just don’t make enough to afford housing and that’s the real issue

@jeffmw2 @DSelfishMan @MaestroMorgan17 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty Ultimately this is not yours to help them resolve. This is something they are experiencing.

@jeffmw2 @DSelfishMan @MaestroMorgan17 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty If you want to take this from a strictly mental health place, it causes people distress. Someone who is having issues around their gender has higher baseline distress navigating the world than you or I experience, so the kind thing to do is not add to that distress.

this diva literally explained it so well like it’s not hard to understand😭

@DSelfishMan @jeffmw2 @MaestroMorgan17 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty Once again, I had to have electricity explained to me multiple times recently and I still don’t understand it. So we’re each bringing something different to this conversation and it’s all important.

@jeffmw2 @squirrelmusing @MaestroMorgan17 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty Kate's the smart one of us bro. You never stood a chance.

@jeffmw2 @DSelfishMan @MaestroMorgan17 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty So this seemingly small thing to you or I became a really big thing to him, to the point he had anxiety around mall Santas and bell-ringer Santas.

@jeffmw2 @DSelfishMan @MaestroMorgan17 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty I had a friend some years ago who was highly afraid of Santa Claus. He got terrible anxiety around Christmas. Eventually, he worked out that it was because his family was terrified of being burgled and the big red guy in the suit sneaking into your house didn’t feel great.

@jeffmw2 @DSelfishMan @MaestroMorgan17 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty Everything is connected to mental health.

@DSelfishMan @MaestroMorgan17 @squirrelmusing @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty I was referring to an adult Del never a child so absolutely irrelevant. And on a serious note do you have any kids? If so did they believe in Santa? Do you really think this has any connection to gender identity?

@jeffmw2 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty When you encounter these situations in the real world, they are ultimately about mental health.

@squirrelmusing @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty Kate can I just say I have no disrespect for the knowledge you have of mental health,Especially professional knowledge I’m nobody with any right to argue with you on that but this question in its originality was stated as hypothetical and never intended to be about mental health

@jeffmw2 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty So what you’re missing is that ultimately this is about mental health.

@squirrelmusing @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty Sorry to jump in but can i just say I have no disrespect for your knowledge on mental health but the question was hypothetical and never intended to be about mental health.

@misssomething__ @whatisahank @jeffmw2 @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty We have a mountain of evidence that universal positive regard has far more value than anything form of shaming or dismissal.

@squirrelmusing @whatisahank @jeffmw2 @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty Right? Same with in the classroom. I have two very young students that don’t go to their birth names. They get really upset if you call them by their real names. Both in kinder and they already know who are.

@jeffmw2 @whatisahank @misssomething__ @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty What do you think you’re going to be asked directly?

@squirrelmusing @whatisahank @misssomething__ @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty I wouldn’t try to talk about it at all but i wouldn’t lie to the person either if i was asked directly.

@misssomething__ @whatisahank @jeffmw2 @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty When I assess for an involuntary psych hold, my role is actually to never question a person’s reality in a way that seems like I disagree with it. I am supposed to be neutral and attempt to understand. It makes people less forthcoming because they feel less safe.

@squirrelmusing @whatisahank @jeffmw2 @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty They always politicize the issue and it’s cruelty politics.

@jeffmw2 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty Yes and again the vast majority of those are only utilized by a very small number of people.

@squirrelmusing @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty Which is fair enough and despite the mockery from others Kate I had heard there were a lot of genders but never knew until recently just how many! seen a list of genders and xenogenders and some of the are that crazy and ridiculous so asked if people her truly accept these 🤷

@whatisahank @jeffmw2 @misssomething__ @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty This exactly. If you are not a therapist or a close loved one, you have no business whatsoever trying to talk to them about that unless they are at immediate grave risk of harm.

@jeffmw2 @squirrelmusing @misssomething__ @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty what if you were dealing with an emotionally damaged and at risk youth? you going to roll your eyes or crack a joke?

@jeffmw2 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty It’s rude. Also you could really hurt their mental health and you are in no way a mental health professional and as such are not equipped to navigate that conversation.

@squirrelmusing @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @FionnMacCool @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty And that’s fine but if you can see clearly that the person is not as they identify why would you lie to them and pretend they are?

@FionnMacCool @jeffmw2 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty When you get good at metacognition, theory of mind often improves, so you end up understanding other people better.

@FionnMacCool @jeffmw2 @misssomething__ @whatisahank @PalantirGaze @arnold_the_good @MaestroMorgan17 @1StarAtaTyme @albertagirl4444 @DSelfishMan @NotDarcyGray @RocksIsFeral @ItsaBurner10 @TrollAdopt @bigredsibin @AardbeiSL @Flaffenbam @Satansky666 @RemoteWrench @Leahc545 @xoyyiu @rhennsy @beyoncegarden @HaughttyPotty Metacognition is thinking about thinking. It’s layered. Layer 1: Doing the thing unconsciously. Layer 2: “Huh I’m doing the thing again.” Layer 3: “Why do I do the thing?” Etc. So he’s really bad about thinking about why he feels how he does, beyond surface impulses.