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I get the frustration behind this take…
…but this is where you lose credibility.
You’ve taken a few examples and turned it into a rule for millions of people.
That’s not insight — that’s overreach.
There are disciplined women.
There are unserious women.
Same way there are grounded men… and chaotic ones too.
The real problem isn’t “modern women.”
It’s this:
Most people — men and women — are underdeveloped, distracted, and not ready for commitment.
So instead of saying “you can’t marry them,”
a sharper take is:
Most people today aren’t prepared for marriage — yet.
That shifts you from blame… to standards.
And standards change everything.
Because the men who actually win don’t argue online about “modern women.”
They:
• Build themselves
• Develop discernment
• Choose carefully
• Walk away quickly when values don’t align
That’s power.
Not blanket conclusions.
If you want your message to hit harder (and not get dismissed instantly), tighten it.
Less rage.
More precision.
That’s how people actually listen.
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@Cobratate I’m not a modern woman. Where is the single men in your comments? Only good men actually like you.
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This is the problem among western women not eastern women. Modern or not, eastern women have always been the same throughout centuries. The attitudes of western women changed throughout time because they don't have the same self discipline or the self respect as the Asians, eastern Europeans or the western Asian.
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@Cobratate Views like this often come from frustration, but generalizing an entire group can harm mental wellbeing and relationships. Healthy partnerships are built on communication, respect and emotional maturity from both sides.
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@Cobratate I think how any people behave depends on beliefs. Have you ever talked to people in Niles, Michigan? Some people don't work well when married; I definitely think the selection process is important and everyone's allowed to have their own preferences as long as agreed to.
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@Cobratate @grok break this down for me like I'm 13 years old
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You aren't just talking about "bad dates"; you are talking about the Incompatibility of Incentives. When a culture removes the social consequences for the dissolution of the family, and the legal system provides a "Exit Bonus" for doing so, the "Tradcon" advice to "just pick a good one" becomes a form of Strategic Malpractice
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@Cobratate It`s not about modern women or looks.
People with too many options and no values behave the same, regardless of gender
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@Cobratate What’s the solution? Just have kids with foreign women outside the US and pay them for it ?
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I ofcourse do not follow whoever you mentioned lol.
But does he bring on women who are engineers or pharmacists or teachers or anything really?
Does he bring religious Muslims or Christians or whatever on?
Probably most of the women he brings are striving artists on onlyfan.
The idea of a man to man up and all is fine, but in order to score many women of this type is stupid lol. What’s the difference between paying for a girlfriend experience or hooker and this?
Man should take care of their health, try to make money and be responsible, and find a woman that suits him, period.
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@Cobratate @Clavicular0 It’s crazy how the modern woman will
Deceive, lie, victimize, and then forget all in the same day of committing their sin.
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@Cobratate Christ is King ✝️
A march towards Jesus is not a march towards destruction. I’m sure the jews you work with suggested otherwise, though.
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@Cobratate Clav's work is brutal proof that incentives matter more than ideology.
Church or secular, the modern environment rewards hypergamy and zero accountability.
Tradcons pushing 'just be a good man' ignore the game has changed.
You warned, Clav demonstrates. Respect the clarity
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@Cobratate You don’t “marry the modern woman.”
You qualify the right woman.
Big difference.
Half the guys complaining wouldn’t marry themselves either.
Marriage isn’t broken.
The selection process is.
Fix that first then decide who’s “unmarriable.”
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@Cobratate It's kind of laughable all these promiscuous guys complaining about "Where's my virgin trad wife!?" 😂😂😂
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@Cobratate My family is great. I raised great women. And my woman and all my sisters are great women. Home makers. Make food. My woman has a bath ready when I get home from work and I don’t even ask her to do it. 🤷♂️.
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@Cobratate Blanket statements about entire groups usually say more about experience than truth.
Good partners aren’t rare because of gender.
They’re rare because character, discipline, and values are rare.
Focus on becoming someone who attracts that
and filters out what doesn’t align.
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@Cobratate These days it's difficult to find a woman who respects you, takes care of you, loves you, is there for you through thick and thin, and wants to start a family with lots of children.
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@Cobratate Weak men blame entire groups. Strong men fix their standards and move accordingly.
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@Cobratate Clav's content is indeed eye-opening proof that modern Western women—regardless of how "trad" they claim to be—have largely abandoned the humility and chastity required for a stable marriage, just as you've been warning for years.
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@Cobratate Marry a women that has a good relationship with her father, rare to find nowadays
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@Cobratate @Clavicular0 I’ve seen a lot of clips. Never a practicing Christian woman.
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@Cobratate Can't deny it. Ones that do are as delusional as the 2015 woke crowd.
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@Cobratate a woman plugged into the matrix will be programmed as such. The only chance a man has is a woman who has not plugged into the machine aka , social media.
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@Cobratate If you involve the government in your love life you will get fucked. It’s a trap. You’re opening a door for them to enter into your life. Just ask the Scot’s, lords could come down and f your wife after you get married. Government policy, so the Scot’s got married in secret.
GIF
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@Cobratate God warned us all that read the word.
Isaiah 3:12
[12]As for my people, CHILDREN are their oppressors, and WOMEN RULE OVER THEM. O my people, they which LEAD thee cause thee to ERR, and DESTROY the way of thy PATHS.
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@Cobratate "You cannot marry the modern woman. They do not understand humility let alone chastity". Word. Many men have gone the wrong route already.
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There is truth in the sleepwalking he is referencing. The ego’s disconnection creates debauchery in both men and women. But blaming “modern women” is still the ego pointing outward. We receive what we reflect. Clav and his lowest denominator content thrive where the teachers themselves are vibrating. They receive what they are. As they condemn these women, they fail to understand they are condemning themselves.
Heal the Christ within you. Remember “The Kingdom of God is within you” right now (Luke 17:21).
Drop the judgment story.
Awaken.
You will attract an entirely different kind of woman even in 2026 because you’ve become an entirely different kind of man.
The Christ in me honors the Christ in every sister. 🙏
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@Cobratate Only single women who aren't involved in dating, hooking up, or having boyfriends are considered wifey material. Men need to actively search and make the effort; otherwise, the likelihood of anything happening is zero.
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@Cobratate Before you write off all women — ask why humility and chastity became countercultural in the first place. The men who built that culture are the same ones now shocked it produced these women. Nobody wants to trace it back that far.
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@Cobratate Facts but Clav isn't the best model for masculinity either.
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@Cobratate @Knot73211261 That’s a very broad generalization. Individual values vary a lot more than that…. across both men and women. It’s more productive to focus on compatibility, shared values, and communication rather than framing it as something that applies to an entire group.
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@Cobratate Blaming “modern women” instead of bad partner selection is wild… accountability really skipped this timeline. 🍿
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