Sir Deviant🔞

One thing about switches? We WILL surprise people. Don’t assume softness means submission and don’t assume confidence means dominance. As a switch, what stereotype annoys you most?

Keith Lee tells Keke Palmer how important respect in his marriage is, explaining that he’ll only have more kids if his wife wants to because she’s the one who carries them 👀 “I’m done when she’s done… If she want 30 of them, we gonna have 30 of them… I’m not the one carrying them, that’s not my body going through the before, after effects.”

what opinion about men do you have that makes people feel like this???

The internet constantly tells women that men are terrible listeners because the second a woman starts venting about her day, the man immediately interrupts to offer a logical solution. We are taught to view this as him being dismissive, emotionally unintelligent, or invalidating our feelings. ​The strict, unpopular truth is that to a man, fixing the problem is his absolute highest, most desperate form of empathy. ​Women vent to connect; we want our partner to just sit in the dark with us and validate the emotion. But men are hardwired to view the woman they love being in distress as an active threat. When he immediately offers a spreadsheet, a strategy, or a solution to your problem, he isn't trying to silence you. His brain has recognized that something in the world is hurting his partner, and his immediate, visceral instinct is to assassinate the thing causing you pain. We constantly shame men for "not just listening," completely ignoring the fact that his attempt to fix your life is his most profound declaration of love.

the third person is always supposed to be a stranger Why would anyone want to do this with their friend? What kind of friendship are people having 🫩🤧

I hate to keep bringing this up, but my momma is still super behind on her bills and needs about 2-3k to get back on track so her utilities don’t get turned off. Any amount helps, and if you can’t do that, retweeting and spreading the word is so appreciated