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Go to the male wards at the hospital today; you will see women taking care of their husbands. Go to the female wards at the same hospital; you will hardly see men taking care of their wives. Who will you meet? Their sisters, close friends, mummy, MIL, and so on. Being kind ,caring and a supportive partner doesn’t make you a simp or a mumu or whatever they call it . ❤️&💡


It’s really disgusting when you guys reduce women’s institutionalised oppression and suffering to “don’t marry a poor man.” One step forward, a hundred steps backward.


FEMINISM AND EQUALITY ENDS HERE.

Just wanted to add that this ‘at least offer to help so that you can be perceived as a decent person’ trope is performance.

a few weeks ago at work this girl was complaining about making a separate dinner for her fiance and folding his laundry and I told her to just stop doing it and she looked at me like I had three heads

If he was a muslim 2.5% Zakat from him would had been solved world hunger crisis

Girl to Girl: Tell us when you realized you can never marry him.😅

Just because you have rights today doesn’t mean you’ll have rights tomorrow!!!!!!

Unrelated but this is a reason I’ve stopped talking to someone i was into Every time she came over, we either had to buy food, or I cook. Not once did she go into the kitchen. You’ll stay over for 2-3 days. I’ll leave the house to get the ingredients. I’ll prepare everything, make the food and she’ll eat. I’ll do the dishes too after. It was either that or I had to buy food that we’d eat. Not once did she offer to cook or make us a meal except that one time I’d eaten and she made noodles for herself. Happened 3 times and after the third time, I just let her go

Unrelated but this is a reason I’ve stopped talking to someone i was into Every time she came over, we either had to buy food, or I cook. Not once did she go into the kitchen. You’ll stay over for 2-3 days. I’ll leave the house to get the ingredients. I’ll prepare everything, make the food and she’ll eat. I’ll do the dishes too after. It was either that or I had to buy food that we’d eat. Not once did she offer to cook or make us a meal except that one time I’d eaten and she made noodles for herself. Happened 3 times and after the third time, I just let her go

I don’t like that those unnecessary spices people use in making stew, no put spicity for my stew abeg.








