ali-fari! 🇵🇸

i hope some of you classist liat komen sama qrt dan sadar kalo transum BARE MINIMUM cuma ada di JAKARTA.

“I don’t understand why women don’t just report it if it really happened.” When I was 19, I reported mine. I had bruises. Hospital photos. Text messages of him apologizing the next morning. My friends drove me to the station because I could barely stop shaking. I thought evidence would make it simple. I thought truth would be enough. Months later, I was the one on trial. His lawyer printed my Instagram photos and held them up in court. Asked why I wore crop tops. Asked why I drank that night. Asked why I didn’t scream louder. He replayed my police interview and pointed out every time I hesitated, every time I cried, every time my timeline wasn’t perfectly linear. “If it was traumatic,” he said, “why can’t she remember clearly?” Sitting there while strangers debated my pain like it was a group project felt like being stripped again. My messages were projected on a screen. My body was described in detail. My character was picked apart like that was the real crime. He walked out on bail. I walked out with panic attacks. That’s why some women don’t report. Because even with bruises. Even with screenshots. Even when you do everything “right.” You still have to survive the assault twice, once in private, and once in public, just to maybe be believed.

momen ktika mnggabungkan 2 hobi skaligu, foto & gambar. jd lah sprti inih💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼 wisuda itb + warna warni = LUCU MAX

sometimes u just gotta look up at bandung

99% of my problems are due to lack of sleep or lack of boker, there is no in-between

when you’ve been so caught up with life that you didn’t even realize you’re living some of your answered prayers

joke only works if you're malay / indo sorry 🥀

(ur name) core on pinterest

speaking as an architecture student, do NOT get with an DKV MAN‼️

I think about that a lot actually, that's #RealFriendship fr

that time my homeboy suddenly asked me to hangout and grab dinner, I thought he was gonna tell me all about that date he had on friday but turns out he just said "nah, I was just in a really good mood so I wanted to hangout w you"

gf’s not home, fruit on da cats

bidang oskm manenih

told my mom how devasted i am that mark left and she said "he should get to live his life too"

lowkey If they don't know you personally, don't take it personally

An Arabic proverb says; “Keep your house clean like you're expecting guests.Keep your heart clean like you're expecting death.” This hits deep, a reminder we often forget.

yep mhm noting this down writing cat pencil

with elon being banny and shine obviously being anin

strangely enough this has a me anin banny vibe to the conversation