I hate when people act like they’re going through hell just to dodge accountability for bad communication or acting weird. You were fine everywhere else with everyone else, don’t hit me with that. lol.
A healthy relationship will challenge you. But instead of the exhaustion from sleepless nights, anxious mornings, and never feeling good enough, you’ll be challenged to communicate. To not sabotage something good because you’re used to instability. To regulate your emotions and show up when you’re not in the mood. Healthy love will challenge you to grow up, emotionally.
Does anyone else with ADHD get hit with too much inspiration at once? like suddenly you have 10 different things you want to start. and the moment you realize you can't do all of them rn. the motivation just disappears.
My favourite plot twist is when people realize I’m exactly who I say I am that I had pure intentions the whole time & they were projecting their own twisted mindsets onto me.