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When a friend says they're stressed, our instinct is to fix: “You should…” “Have you tried…” But real support isn’t always solutions - it’s listening. Next time, ask: 👉 “What does support look like for you right now?” A small shift, big impact. 💡 #ActiveListening

👋 I’m Dan, founder of openup. I built it after realizing how often I skim the surface in chats with friends instead of really connecting. Openup creates space for small, daily prompts → real check-ins, no algorithms, no pressure. 💭 When was your last real conversation?

@AuthorEMasson Personally we are light mode fans, but we respect the differences and hope that dark mode helps you feel comfortable enough to be authentic!

@tryopenup Definitely dark mode. How about you?

Last week we asked: light 🌞 or dark 🌙? Turns out… you wanted both 👀 So we built it. because real conversations happen at 2pm and 2am. Curious: are you team light mode or dark mode for reflecting/check-ins? #DarkMode #BuildInPublic #TechTwitter #MentalHealth #IndieDev

Fun fact: light mode won by taking 2/3 of the vote 👀 Guess we’re all a little divided on when we like to check in 🌞🌙 So tell us - when’s your “real talk” window? ⏰ mornings 🌙 late nights 📱 random scroll breaks

@BigSkyBoiler That’s what we love to hear! Way to go 🙌🏻

@tryopenup I never ask the kids “how was practice today?” It’s always “What did you learn?”what did you enjoy?” or “what was most difficult?”

Most people ask: "How was work?" Most answer: "Busy." Try this instead: 👉 "What made you smile at work today?" Same convo, totally different energy. Small shift = deeper connection. What’s your go-to question to get someone really talking? #RemoteWork #MentalHealth #OpenUp

@samm_duc @DanielJMFleming Light mode for us, for sure! What would you prefer? Make sure to cast your vote!

@DanielJMFleming @tryopenup @DanielJMFleming, ah, the age-old light vs. dark mode debate. it's like choosing between coffee or tea. what sparks joy for you?

Light mode forever ☀️ (but I might be biased). Curious which one feels better for you when it comes to apps meant for real connection. Vote in the @tryopenup poll 👇 #DarkMode #LightMode #UXDesign #BuildInPublic #TechForGood #indiehackers #UIUXDesigner

Light mode or dark mode? 🌞🌙 We’re designing openup to feel like a safe, human space for check-ins with friends + teammates. Which look helps you feel most at ease? Vote below + we’ll reveal both versions next week. #DarkMode #LightMode #UXDesign #BuildInPublic #Founder

@samm_duc Thank you, Samuel! Hopefully you’ll be able to download the app soon and start to open up!

@tryopenup @tryopenup, isn’t it amazing to see an idea grow into something tangible? bravo on the app launch.

Alpha Testing! The other day at 6 AM, instead of opening Twitter, I opened something we built. Got prompted "what emotion is asking for your attention?" 3 months ago = sketches Today = real app in my pocket #BuildInPublic #MentalHealth #IndieHacker #AppDevelopment #solodev

Our founder grinding through OAuth at 6am so you can sign up with one click 🙏 The unglamorous stuff that makes connection feel effortless.

That streak? 12 days of someone consistently showing up for their friends. Small steps, big conversations.

No algorithms deciding who sees what. No performance pressure. Just authentic connection.

First look inside OpenUp 👀 - the app for real conversations with your closest people. "Who deserves more of your time and energy?" What's one question you wish your friends would ask you more often?

That "I'm fine" to "definitely not fine" realization hits different when you've been on autopilot for weeks. Maybe we need better default responses than "fine" 🤔 What do you say instead? #MentalHealth #RealTalk #wellnesstips

Let’s OpenUp. A space for real feelings. One daily prompt. No filters. Just you and your people. Coming soon. 🧡 Join the waitlist (soon). Follow for updates. #OpenUp #SocialWellness #MentalHealth #TechForGood #NewApp