Dommes - what’s your biggest ick honorific to be called when it’s incorrect? Mine is Mistress. Just shows laziness and they’ve taken no time to check and approach correctly. Ew.

@RelapseForRavyn Honestly I’m not super picky I enjoy the diversity but ma’am sends Me over the edge.

@RelapseForRavyn I always say Miss unless given permission to use the honorifics because some Dommes do not want subs to use their honorifics unless they’re in a D/s relationship

Mommy is the most ick one. Never have and never will have a MD/lb kink. But, honestly I don't appreciate them using honorifics right off the bat anyways. Gotta earn that. I'm not their Goddess/Domme/Mistress until they've proven worthy of it. And I've proven that the sub can trust me to be a safe space to give that power exchange up to.

@RelapseForRavyn Ma'am or mommy. Just not my thing. I'm curious why there's so much ick for "mistress" in this thread?

@RelapseForRavyn Some sad fuck called me Babygirl and that sent me into a fit of rage.

@RelapseForRavyn Ma’am is an absolute no go for me plus my honorific is in my name. I hate an illiterate and lazy sub🤷🏾‍♀️

@RelapseForRavyn Honestly mine is mommy, it gives me the ick all the way. Call me father or daddy or God, just not mommy

@RelapseForRavyn I love being called Mistress… it speaks to me, but I guess it’s personal. But it has a different touch when the subs actually check and ask for preference.

I don’t have a preferred honorific but I always roll my eyes when they blurt out mommy in the initial approach. First of all I have zero incest content online so that demonstrates not only a lack of respect but a lack of research as well. To begin a conversation in character with your taboo role play assumes that the dominant wants to participate despite zero consent (and usually zero tribute as well). It’s an announcement that you are a self centered twat with no respect for boundaries. I personally love Ma’am but that’s because I love my military guys.

@RelapseForRavyn "Ma'am" irritates tf outa me like I aint ur grandma tf

@RelapseForRavyn I’ve had subs straight up try to call me Mom 🥲

@RelapseForRavyn Mine is Mistress as well, but I also really hate the question of like how much should I load up? It just shows cowardess

@RelapseForRavyn Mommy (I prefer daddy), Princess (I’m a Queen) 🙄

@RelapseForRavyn YUP mistress as well i HATE it

@RelapseForRavyn “Girls” + “mistresses” like we get we’re a duo… but the lack of respect has now costed you more than double.

@RelapseForRavyn Mine is Goddess. I think it’s so fitting and beautiful for others but for me I just hate it 😭

@RelapseForRavyn A mistress is as if he has already reached that level of intimacy. There’s no sign of respect or genuine interest.