Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe
"Àgbà, if my boyfriend doesn't provide for me, how do I know that he would provide in marriage?"
If you want to know, go and cohabit with him and see how he takes charge of things. Also, study how he shows care to his siblings or parents.
If you go on dates, watch how he handles the bills. Then, observe whether he is always willing to pay back any debt he owes you.
It's not until he gives you a monthly salary, or pays your rent, or buys you expensive phones, bags, or hair that you'd be convinced.
A young man is not supposed to waste money like that. He's supposed to invest in his future.
And if you understand it and do right by him, that future investment would benefit both of you and your kids.
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