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Huge lesson, and one that hits hard when you finally realize it. Giving so much of yourself to people who wouldn’t do the same? It drains you. It’s like pouring your energy into a well that never fills up. You keep hoping they’ll match your effort, but some people just take and take without ever giving back. This month learning that boundary—knowing when to pull back and protect your own energy—is a game changer. It’s not about being cold or selfish; it’s about valuing yourself enough to stop giving away parts of you to people who don’t appreciate them. Reciprocity is key, and you deserve to have people in your life who lift you up just as much as you do for them. It’s a tough lesson, but once you learn it, you start to attract relationships that are balanced and healthy, where the give and take flows naturally. Protect your energy, because you’re worth it.

Calling a girl who has been continuously groomed by older men, so much so that she finds it romantic that a man would use condoms regularly, a “stupid lil hoe” is insane. How can you like yuri but not respect female characters who have misogyny-based character trauma.