a god of calamity me-retweet
a god of calamity
6.5K posts

a god of calamity me-retweet

My Granny once told me something that slapped me right in the face.
She said:
In five years, most of the people you see every day will be strangers again. The coworkers you eat lunch with. The neighbors you wave to. The people you bend yourself into shapes for so things stay "easy."
Not gone. Just... no longer in your orbit. That's how life works. People flow in. People flow out. And you don't get to control who stays. When that really landed, I thought about how much energy I'd spent trying to be liked. How many times I said yes when my body said no. How often I made choices based on who might be disappointed later. And for what? If so many people are only here for a chapter, why do we build our lives around keeping them comfortable? This is your reminder: YOU are allowed to invest YOUR energy where it actually matters. YOU are allowed to build a life that feels good to YOU - even if it doesn't make sense to anyone else. Because in five years, they might be strangers again. But you'll still be here.
If this hit you like it hit me, save it as a reminder to choose yourself.
quote@itsmubashi
STOP SCROLLING! READ THIS!
English
a god of calamity me-retweet

@sunnkssdseraph Being the “low-maintenance good child” isn’t always maturity, it can be a coping habit to keep peace.
English
a god of calamity me-retweet

According to psychology, being the "good, low maintenance" child isn't a sign of innate maturity. It is a survival strategy known as parentification or fawning. You subconsciously recognized that your caregivers were too emotionally overwhelmed, volatile, or fragile to handle your age appropriate needs. You swallowed your own childhood and became invisible just to keep the peace.
quote@itsmubashi
Hit me with the harshest reality truth.
English

#Supergirl final render
What do you guys think of this look.. Did I do her justice? 👀
#Superman #DCComics #DC #krypto

Chibi (COMMISSION OPEN)@PrinceChibi_
#Supergirl wip
English
a god of calamity me-retweet
a god of calamity me-retweet

it’s a red flag when your partner turns cruel during conflict. disagreements shouldn’t erase kindness. even in chaos, you should still feel care, still feel respect, still feel loved. a partner who stays kind when things are hard isn’t a luxury... it’s essential
lifeofarawbitch@idgaf755
Unpopular dating opinions that would get you in this position???
English
a god of calamity me-retweet

Black Cat Neon Overdrive Skin Concept, Marvel Rivals FanArt🥰
I want to get on VGen, please support me guys!#VGenCode
#marvelrivals #blackcat #marvel #fanartㅤ

English
a god of calamity me-retweet

You don't have to show everybody your full personality like it's very okay to be absolutely nobody to some people.
EDOSE✨@iam_biglad1
As you got older what did you realise?
English
a god of calamity me-retweet

You shouldn't have to convince someone to choose you. You shouldn't lie awake overthinking texts, decoding silences, begging the universe for a sign that they care. If someone wants you in their life - really wants you - they'll show up. Not with excuses. Not with mixed signals. But with clarity, effort, and presence. Love isn't supposed to feel like a guessing game. And if you're constantly wondering where you stand, then you already have your answer.
Stop breaking your own heart trying to fix someone else's confusion. I know you want to believe they just need time, that maybe if you hold on a little longer, they'll finally see what's right in front of them. But real love doesn't keep you in limbo. It doesn't vanish when things get hard. It doesn't make you feel like you're too much to handle. The hard truth? If someone keeps making you feel uncertain, it's because they're not sure about you and that should never be okay.
You're allowed to stop waiting for clarity from someone who only gives you chaos. You're allowed to walk away from the person you love when that love is slowly killing the love you have for yourself. It will hurt, yes. But staying will hurt more. Because the kind of love that's right for you? You won't have to chase it. You won't have to earn it. It'll meet you where you are, take your hand, and stay without making you feel like you have to beg to be kept.
English
a god of calamity me-retweet
a god of calamity me-retweet
a god of calamity me-retweet
a god of calamity me-retweet

If someone behaves in a confusing way, you’re going to feel confused. If they disappear, communicate poorly, and give mixed signals, you will probably feel anxious. This is not a pathology. This is basic cause and effect. We’ve reached a point where every ordinary emotional reaction gets turned into a trauma response or a personality disorder instead of what it usually is: a reasonable response to somebody acting badly.
English
a god of calamity me-retweet
a god of calamity me-retweet
a god of calamity me-retweet
a god of calamity me-retweet
















