My husbandโs ex texted him out of nowhere:
โWe need to talk. Itโs serious.โ
He ignored it.
Then she called. Crying. Saying she might be pregnant. Saying she didnโt know who else to call. Saying she was scared.
He put her on speaker immediately.
Now listenโฆ most women wouldโve flipped the table right there.
But I said, โIf thereโs even a 1% chance, we go handle it like adults.โ
Because Iโm not afraid of the truth.
So we drove to her apartment.
She opened the door in silk pajamas, hair done, smelling like she just stepped out of a photoshoot.
No swollen eyes. No panic.
Just a soft smile.
โI knew youโd come.โ
I stood there quietly while he asked,
โDid you take a test?โ
She shrugged.
โNoโฆ I just wanted to see if you still cared.โ
I have never seen a grown man look so disappointed.
Not angry.
Disappointed.
Because thereโs nothing attractive about weaponizing motherhood for attention.
We left without arguing.
And that night I learned something:
A secure marriage doesnโt fear tests.
But immature people will create them anyway.
Tickling your child this way ๐ increases his or her brain ๐ง capacity and increase the Intelligent Quotient ( IQ)
Dear parents adopt and thank me !!
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN,
โฃโฃ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ๐งโ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ซ, ๐๐๐ , ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐โฃ.
This is the part nobody likes to talk about. All you want is japka as if money is growing on trees abroad.โฃ
Before visa.โฃ
Before IELTS.โฃ
Before embassy prayers.โฃ
โฃ
There are BASIC, LOW-LEVEL, HIGH-DEMAND skills Nigerians should already know before leaving Nigeria.โฃ
โฃ
Real-life survival and money skills.โฃ
๐. ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐โฃ
โฃ
If you cannot drive, you will suffer.โฃ
โฃ
Full stop.โฃ
โฃ
Driving gives you:โฃ
โข Freedomโฃ
โข Multiple income optionsโฃ
โข Time controlโฃ
โข Independenceโฃ
โฃ
People abroad make money from:โฃ
โข Uber / Boltโฃ
โข Amazon Flexโฃ
โข DoorDash / Instacartโฃ
โข Medical transportโฃ
โข Private deliveriesโฃ
โข Chauffeur workโฃ
โฃ
Learning to drive abroad costs:โฃ
โข Thousandsโฃ
โข Months of delayโฃ
โข Failed testsโฃ
โฃ
Learn it in Nigeria cheaply.โฃ
Master it.โฃ
Arrive ready.โฃ
2. HAIR BRAIDING & BEAUTY SKILLS PRINT MONEYโฃ
โฃ
People joke about โbraiding hair.โโฃ
โฃ
Let me tell you something.โฃ
Hair pays rent abroad.โฃ
โฃ
Skills that make cash fast:โฃ
โข Hair braidingโฃ
โข Wig makingโฃ
โข Loc installationโฃ
โข Barberingโฃ
โข Lash extensionsโฃ
โข Nailsโฃ
โฃ
These skills:โฃ
โข Need little Englishโฃ
โข Have African clients everywhereโฃ
โข Pay cashโฃ
โข Travel with youโฃ
โฃ
Many salons abroad are owned by Nigerians.โฃ
Clients are booked months ahead.โฃ
3. COOKING IS A BUSINESS, NOT JUST A TALENTโฃ
โฃ
If you can cook well, you are sitting on money.โฃ
โฃ
Abroad, people pay heavily for:โฃ
โข Nigerian foodโฃ
โข Party traysโฃ
โข Meal prepโฃ
โข Cateringโฃ
โข Frozen mealsโฃ
โฃ
Learn:โฃ
โข Portion controlโฃ
โข Food hygieneโฃ
โข Packagingโฃ
โข Pricingโฃ
โฃ
People abroad are tired.โฃ
They buy convenience.โฃ
4. SEWING & ALTERATIONSโฃ
โฃ
Fashion doesnโt disappear abroad.โฃ
โฃ
People need:โฃ
โข Clothes shortenedโฃ
โข Zips changedโฃ
โข Dresses adjustedโฃ
โข Wedding outfits fixedโฃ
โฃ
Learn sewing properly.โฃ
Not Instagram tailoring.โฃ
Real measurements.โฃ
โฃ
One sewing machine abroad can feed a family.โฃ
5. CLEANING IS A BUSINESS IF DONE RIGHTโฃ
โฃ
Not house-help mentality.โฃ
โฃ
Commercial cleaning pays:โฃ
โข Officesโฃ
โข Schoolsโฃ
โข Airbnbโฃ
โข Construction sitesโฃ
โฃ
Learn:โฃ
โข Deep cleaningโฃ
โข Equipment useโฃ
โข Chemicalsโฃ
โข Speed & qualityโฃ
โฃ
Many Nigerians abroad clean quietly and own houses later.โฃ
6. HANDYMAN & REPAIR SKILLS ARE GOLDโฃ
โฃ
People abroad donโt fix things themselves.โฃ
โฃ
Learn:โฃ
โข Paintingโฃ
โข Basic plumbingโฃ
โข Light electrical workโฃ
โข Furniture assemblyโฃ
โข TV mountingโฃ
โฃ
Clients pay for 30 minutes what some earn in a full day.โฃ
7. LAUNDRY & IRONING IS UNDERVALUED MONEYโฃ
โฃ
People hate washing and ironing.โฃ
โฃ
Abroad:โฃ
โข Time is moneyโฃ
โข Convenience is kingโฃ
โฃ
Learn professional laundry:โฃ
โข Stain removalโฃ
โข Foldingโฃ
โข Packagingโฃ
โฃ
Simple skill. Constant demand.โฃ
8. CHILDCARE & ELDER CARE SKILLSโฃ
โฃ
Not just โwatching children.โโฃ
โฃ
Learn:โฃ
โข Basic childcareโฃ
โข First aidโฃ
โข Safety routinesโฃ
โข Elder supportโฃ
โฃ
Care jobs are always available.โฃ
Certification helps.โฃ
Experience matters.โฃ
9. BASIC COMPUTER SKILLS SEPARATE YOU FROM SUFFERINGโฃ
โฃ
You donโt need to be a tech genius.โฃ
โฃ
But you must know:โฃ
โข Emailโฃ
โข Online formsโฃ
โข Schedulingโฃ
โข Scanning documentsโฃ
โข Printingโฃ
โฃ
Many Nigerians abroad lose jobs because they canโt fill simple forms.โฃ
โฃ
If you are still in Nigeria:โฃ
Learn something with your hands.โฃ
Learn something practical.โฃ
Learn something people pay for.โฃ
โฃ
Visa expires.โฃ
Skills donโt.โฃ
Best wishes
Please if you have a functional contact number for Aero Contractors customer care, please share with me. Itโs crucial, help a sister please. @flyaero
@flyaero Flightโs rescheduled 4times in one day. Travel plans &interview arrangements almost ruined. No consideration for the vulnerable customer๐ก๐ฉ
Anyway, I have applied for a refund as advised by your staff,Please confirm how long it will take to get this sorted.