King Botus🐘

THE MONSTERS WE MADE I used to complain about how entitled women had become how everything felt like a demand, how nothing was ever enough. But one day, I had to be honest with myself I helped create that problem. I remember my ex clearly. When we started, she was simple, appreciative. The kind of woman who said “thank you” for the little things. But I didn’t like “little things.” I wanted to impress. I overdid everything expensive gifts, constant money transfers, solving problems she didn’t even ask me to solve. If she mentioned something once, I made it my duty to provide it twice. At first, she resisted. “You don’t have to do all this,” she’d say. But I insisted. I thought that’s what being “the man” meant. Slowly, her expectations changed. The same things she once appreciated became normal. Then they became insufficient. If I didn’t do more, there was a problem. If I pulled back, I was “changing.” I started feeling used but the truth hit me hard I set that standard. I trained her to expect more than was necessary, then got frustrated when she did exactly that. That’s when I realized: a lot of what we call “entitlement” didn’t just appear. It was built, reinforced, and rewarded by men like me who gave too much, too fast, without boundaries. We complain about the outcome, but we ignore the role we played in creating it.

@onlyone_success Sad reality of a man’s life

A man can be a ghost at home, be expendable at work, but suddenly be important when money is needed. It's sad.

@spectreNBA 😂😂😂

@BotusKing It wasn't you, she had it inside her

THE MONSTERS WE MADE I used to complain about how entitled women had become how everything felt like a demand, how nothing was ever enough. But one day, I had to be honest with myself I helped create that problem. I remember my ex clearly. When we started, she was simple, appreciative. The kind of woman who said “thank you” for the little things. But I didn’t like “little things.” I wanted to impress. I overdid everything expensive gifts, constant money transfers, solving problems she didn’t even ask me to solve. If she mentioned something once, I made it my duty to provide it twice. At first, she resisted. “You don’t have to do all this,” she’d say. But I insisted. I thought that’s what being “the man” meant. Slowly, her expectations changed. The same things she once appreciated became normal. Then they became insufficient. If I didn’t do more, there was a problem. If I pulled back, I was “changing.” I started feeling used but the truth hit me hard I set that standard. I trained her to expect more than was necessary, then got frustrated when she did exactly that. That’s when I realized: a lot of what we call “entitlement” didn’t just appear. It was built, reinforced, and rewarded by men like me who gave too much, too fast, without boundaries. We complain about the outcome, but we ignore the role we played in creating it.

@Indemosyd @iamscrummy_ The boy sabi fire🔥

Facts about relationships like this ??🤔

@peegzy1 Thy will write it off as bad debt

If you take a huge loan from a bank and leave the country without paying, what's the worst they can do?

@onlyfadek1 @OfficialAM7News No ooo But she should do her best not to come back

Do you have a problem with your partner going on friendship dates with the opposite sex?¿

@Varticoo @OfficialAM7News Amen oooo

Dear algorithm, show this post to somebody who's going to experience the biggest wins of their life.

@spectreNBA Fact

Poverty has ended more marriages in this generation than infidelity will ever do.

@Tunnykvng @OfficialAM7News Amen ooo

May we all get the win(s) we need this week 🤲🏾

@BalogunSonia4 Bread

What’s something you always spend money on?

May our today be better than our yesterday Iséé

@CFC_OBED I dey try ooo

Bro to bro , grow your x account

@Amy_beke @obikoyaemmanue1 Na wetin dey give men sperm cramps be this Too much kissing

sex is so overrated, kissing >>>>>>>

@te_re_nce_dawg @Great01946235 Yes ooo

Do you have friends who can send you 50K urgently???

@that_girldivy People will not understand this until they use pure water baff ,cook and worst of all flush toile

Do we agree tha Not having water is way worse than not having light?

@Ellis_ We don't pretend they are good if they are not

TALES OF A SUFFERING MAN I sat in my car for 23 minutes before work not because I was early, but because I didn’t know if I had anything left in me. My hands were shaking on the steering wheel. My chest felt tight, like something was sitting on it. My mind kept whispering, “Just go home. Just rest.” But reality doesn’t care how you feel. The clock doesn’t pause. Bills don’t wait. So I stepped out. By the time I walked into the building, I had already put my mask on. Smiled at a few people. Nodded like everything was normal. Inside, I was exhausted. Not just tired drained. No one asked if I was okay. Instead, I got more deadlines. More pressure. More reminders about how “important” everything was. That night, my phone didn’t give me a break either. My mum needed help with bills,my younger brother needed school fees,my girl wanted to know why I’d been distant. I stared at the screen for a long time. I didn’t tell anyone about the sleepless nights or the fact that I haven’t felt genuinely happy in months. I just typed, “I’m fine.” Because as a man that’s the only answer the world seems willing to accept.

@Boy994Boy @_falsi1ke Unless you’ve tried it before don’t call it rubies

@BotusKing @_falsi1ke Who taught you this nonsense Pls don’t teach ur jnr bro or ur sons this rubbish.

Bro to Bro: Never HAVE SEX with a woman who is OLDER than you.

Chelsea negotiating Baco deal with themselves and deciding how much his left hand will pay his right hand

@the_Lawrenz Why? Why can't my siblings do it?

You are the person that will break the generational poverty on your family. Get ready. 😎