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Relentles
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@dahorumba @MizutamariVT He admited that he cheated and didnt tell her about his girlfriend at the time they were flirting. Did we watch the same video???
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You could have called him a cheater. You had the option to be honest and do that.
But you knew "big creator cheats" wouldn't get people interested cause it's not their business so made this insane narrative about predators and abuse that just wasn't true.
Take your L.
Mujin@Muj_in
His girlfriend, he could have simply dated his girlfriend that he lived with, and not lied to her for over 5 years while playing dating simulator with every female content creator in existence. But sure man, let’s instead farm clips calling cheating “based”, real classy 🥀
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@ClarkKrist15532 @missionwind2374 @ailuvewe So what age gap is acceptable? What age do you think people should no longer be treated as vulnerable? 20? 25? 32? 70? Where does the accountability begin? At a certain point its time to grow up.
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@RelentlesReeper @missionwind2374 @ailuvewe That's the legal threshold, dumbass.
As a society, a 34 yo going after anyone under 25 raise an eyebrow and gets criticized.
Legality needs clear actionable boundaries. But legality =/= morality.
Cheating isnt illegal, but its immoral. Its the same.
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People who commenting "They are both legal adults."
It can still be predatory.
As someone who was 19 once upon a time & had a 30 year old crawl into my childhood bedroom window.
You don't think that sounds creepy?
There is a total power difference that comes with age.
💜Ai Luv Ewe VT🐏 FFXIV Fan Fest &Acen ArtistAlley@ailuvewe
What a total scumbag! You are 30. Why are you preying on someone who was 19.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @missionwind2374 @ailuvewe What about 20? Is that acceptable? 22, 24. Is 25 and 18 too big of a gap? Who are you to decide? At a certain, we as society decided that at 18 you could do anything you legally wanted. Everything else is irrelevant.
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@RelentlesReeper @missionwind2374 @ailuvewe That tells me all I need to know. If you cant understand that a 19 year old is young for everyone except 19 or 18, then you treat it as subjective
They have the right to their decisions, but are also vulnerable. If you excuse that, you are just as complicit in their exploitation
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@ClarkKrist15532 @missionwind2374 @ailuvewe "Young" is a broad term, technically a 40 year old could consider a 30 year old "young", these labels dont help anything. Its a very concept, at a certain point you are either capable makeing your own choices, or you aren't. There is no middle ground.
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@RelentlesReeper @missionwind2374 @ailuvewe And its easy to screw people who are inexperienced with the world. Like the young.
SO we can stop pretending that him going after smaller younger CCs as a 34 yo was just a fetish.
It was also easy, and that's a power imbalance here. Legal? Sure. Moral? Not a chance.
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@YourHostTheG @NullitasOfOne Nothing in the Google Doc said anything about Sexual Assualt. The only victim was the girlfriend he cheated on.
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@NullitasOfOne I feel sorry for all the victims :( especially during the month of SA Awareness month
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The sykunno stuff is so disheartening, I was a hardcore fan for years and watching his awkward charm helped me get through some crazy times.
I’ve reviewed all the information and proof sent out on him and all I can say is, why are so many people from that group coming out-
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I don't care if someone is following me. If you discount my experience. No.
I was a young woman at once in my life. I was taken advantage of. Sadly.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @missionwind2374 @ailuvewe I agree, its vile to manipulate people. But saying that the woman were incapable of making a different decision is incorrect. They got screwed over, not mind-controlled.
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@RelentlesReeper @missionwind2374 @ailuvewe Bro is going to pretend that people dont get lied to, scammed, manipulated as adults
But no, lets make fun of them for making decisions where they were told lies and the truth was hidden from them
Things come with experience, but they either want to subdue women or violate them
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this is irrelevant. google docs arent about sorting out issues, they exist so people can share information about dangerous people in the community. i dont believe this is drama that shouldve stayed internal after being handled. sykkuno is such a huge creator is clearly manipulative, therefore female creators deserve to be aware of this person. keeping things like this in the dark only serve to the benefit of the perpetrator….
Rima Evenstar@RimaEvenstar
sykkuno: I swear like 99% of drama should be solved by people talking to each other [...] especially in a lot of the vtuber space, I feel like people would rather spend 10 years writing a google doc than spending 5 minutes trying to actually solve the problem with each other 🚬💀
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@ClarkKrist15532 @missionwind2374 @ailuvewe I agree, they are too easily manipulated and can't make those decisions. Thats why they should have someone else make every decision for them until they are mature, like 32 or 41.
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@RelentlesReeper @missionwind2374 @ailuvewe "Oh you know, you are so mature, so independent. you can make your own decisions." is literally the language of groomers.
We can stop pretending that women going from 17 to 18 magically learn everything they need to protect themselves looking to manipulate and exploit them
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@eloyinterviews They can't. Once they turn into adults they are expected to make adult decisions with adult risks. Otherwise, they are not mature enough to be adults and someone else should be making those decisions for them.
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I do not condone grooming.
If you don't think adults can be groomed then I seriously hope you never have a loved one affected by the grooming you don't believe in. Not for your sake, for theirs, since you won't believe them.
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Remember when Bao got cancelled over this because it’s “misandry” and “not all men”
Bao The Whale 🐳@baovtuber
If you’re an up and coming female content creator with a small, but growing audience and a much larger and successful male content creator approaches you out of no where and showers you with attention on stream, in dms, etc, don’t walk, RUN.
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@Cully_VT @RizibidiToilet By "experiences" do you mean that they said something that made you feel funny, thus leading you to believe that you're being mind-controlled?
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@RizibidiToilet I have had a few experiences with male content creators myself, but I still have so much faith in the people who are genuine and kind and in this for the passion and not clout, money. and girls
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I would like to remind people that while there are male content creators who have done and do awful things there are many male creators who are genuinely good people aswell
Please stay safe everyone 💖✨
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It's incredibly frustrating that no one will take a woman seriously about their experiences with a predator until more women start speaking up on their similar experiences with the same predator.
It should never get to a point were MULTIPLE victims need to speak up.
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@SoraRhedyn @SSRLia No, it isnt. Either adult woman are mature enough to make their own decisions or they aren't. If not, then by your logic, adult woman should have someone else make their decisons for them.
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@SSRLia It's the power imbalance that's predatory. It's quite simple.
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@swenlei56 @DisguisedPost @SSRLia The labels were too harsh. "Cheating Scumbag" is an easy win. "Manipulatory predatory" isn't. Then again, one generates a lot more views.
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@DisguisedPost @SSRLia well in one case, the victims called him a predator which frames the call out as if children were harmed and the reader can take a breath knowing that none were harmed
in the other case, the creator was known for being hard on cheaters despite knowingly cheating with a married gy
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@SSRLia @PizzaGu97337875 So your saying that adult woman are too easily manipulated and can't make important decisions that young.
I agree, they should have someone else make those decisions for them until they turn another arbitrary age like 30 or 43.
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@PizzaGu97337875 The girl was only 19 and was starstruck by him replying. Its the same sort of thing as if you randomly dmed your celebrity crush and they respond back because they know they can easily get laid by doing so.
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@Dckiller27 @RokkuuVT @Maia_Michi I agree, we should be treating woman as adults until they're 30. They are too easily manipulated and can't make important decisions for themselves. Glad to know we're on the same page.
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@RokkuuVT @Maia_Michi 19 year olds are not grown ass adults. As much as people want to believe that be the case cuz you get some privleges like voting and driving there’s a reason you can’t drink yet and why you don’t fully develop mentally til mid twenties. Also lets not gatekeep google docs lol
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They were 19 and early 20s.
Dude was in his 30s and in a relationship. He could have said “no sorry I’m taken” or not reply at all and go about his life.
He chose to cheat, he chose to entertain them sexually, he chose to love bomb them and he chose to lie to them all. While neglecting the girlfriend he was living with for years.
Trying to blame the 19 YEAR OLD BARELY LEGAL BARELY ADULT WOMEN is stupid asf in this situation.
He’s a grown ass man pretending to be a soft boy on the internet so younger girls will watch his content because that’s his main audience demographic. Which he was completely aware of because all content creators look at their analytics and check those things.
Creepy and Ew.
Mizutamari💧• Puddle Yokai@MizutamariVT
Look, I would agree if a mid 30s guy was exclusively targeting 19 year olds, it's kinda sus. The part you're leaving out though is ALL OF YOU APPROACHED HIM and based on everything else you're sharing the problem is that he's not picky about female attention. So this attempt to paint him as a predator targeting "young girls" is nonsense and you all know it.
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@Vorpal_Kitty @rosiebellmoo Except it is being used, in a serious way, by everyone discussing it. Nothing i saw was predatory behavior. You can't infantilize, in order to victimize, woman on 1 hand then argue that they are mature enough to make their own decision on the other. He cheated, that was it.
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@Vorpal_Kitty @rosiebellmoo Using the word predator is a career ender. Regardless of whether its true or not. So its one of the "biggest deals" any male can deal with.
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@CuppyCakiee Except the dynamic was a Rockstar and his groupies. Scummy sure, "Serial harraser"?, "Sex pest"? No.
Also, you can't be that dense, right? "Everyone will do their research and not take a click bait title seriously".
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I hate making these posts but genuinely, if you’re one of those people who thinks what sykkuno did was okay then genuinely block/unfollow me.
Women have been trying to tell you this is a genuine issue they deal with daily for years and each and every time people come out and invalidate their experiences and victim blame. When you sit there and tell others what he did is okay you singlehadedly make most women around you feel incredibly unsafe.
And that’s the thing, you aren’t safe to be around with opinions like that.
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@AmayaSoma I agree, adult woman are too easily manipulated. They shouldn't be making important decisions until they have enough money or influence of their own.
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Reminder:
Predators are not just pedofiles! Predators are people who prey on the vulnerable. This could be a boss preying on his employees, CC preying on fans, heck it can be your friend preying on naive ppl.
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