Aichi

What do you suppose they are talking about?

There’s a time hubby and I were at the airport. We got into the picture and selfie moment. We took quite a number of them. All nice and laughing. Upon viewing them he told me to delete some coz he didn’t like how he looked in them. I insisted and said No. He insisted and I also insisted it’s my phone. He asked me only one question: So u can’t listen to me if I say I don’t like them? I knew there and then we’ve now crossed into the husband mode and outa friend mode no-more. I immediately handed over the phone and he deleted the ones he didn’t feel okay with. That’s all she’s trying to say here. The ability to discern who is talking at what moment and acting accordingly. Hope this example throws more light..

As far as I’m concerned, your friends shouldn’t be in the know about everything that goes on in your serious relationship, except in situations where you genuinely need help or advice, like an abusive one. You owe your partner that respect and boundary, and yourself too. Your relationship shouldn’t be an open book to your friends, unless it’s not that serious and just a fling

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