@TheDonOfEvery Deme's only mistake was having faith in the decency of indecent people. They were never going to forgive her because she committed their most unforgivable sin: being an outspoken woman who makes fun of them.
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EverAdamant
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EverAdamant
@EverAdamant
Pamperer of cookies, watcher of cats, eater of vtubers. Or maybe it's some other way around.
United States 가입일 Kasım 2023
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Chibi’s entire video is just him twisting Deme’s words to keep playing victim. Let’s go through it as I watched from start to finish:
1. “Her apology isn’t sincere because she posted in Discord after the DM”
False. Deme privately apologized to him for bringing up something traumatic. The Discord post was her telling her own community that the apology was also so they could move on from the harassment his cult had been throwing at her for days. Those two things aren’t contradictions they’re someone trying to be accountable while protecting her people.
2. “She called me a pedo and rapist and didn’t apologize for it”
She edited the fake tweet and clarified it was misinformation. More importantly, the whole situation started because he attacked her boundaries first. She clapped back. That doesn’t make her the villain.
3. “The stream sounds are suggestive so the allegations have merit”
The “sex on stream” claims have already been debunked with synced VODs and timestamps (Manager JoJo already proved this). Chibi is still pushing a lie because he has nothing else.
4. “She only apologized because of backlash”
Even if that’s partially true, she still did it. She owned the low blow, said she doesn’t want to stoop to his level, and tried to be better. Chibi is the one who spent days letting his cult smear her and is still refusing to accept any apology that isn’t pure groveling.
5. “I don’t accept the apology”
That’s fine. But stop pretending you’re some noble guy “considering” it. You’re just farming more content and keeping your cult attacking her. You started this by calling her a virtue signaler and refusing to respect her boundaries. Everything after that is on you.
Deme gave a real apology. Chibi is just a bitter, manipulative loser who can’t handle the fact that she stood up for herself and came out looking better than him.
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@akaFoxVT The only thing she did wrong was apologize to someone who didn't deserve it.
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@nyaraVT I know they're desperate to keep this hate train rolling, but going around saying "Oh yeah, well you're UGLY!" is such kindergarten shit.
But then, considering their taste in women, perhaps I shouldn't be surprised they think that way.
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It’s so incredibly normalised for men who look like this to shame women for their appearances..
Leon@LeonsPocket
I’m sorry but I notice NONE of the people talking about that lady looks showed what this dude look like What’s good for the goose is good for the gander
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@vexmlk They do shit like this and then wonder why no one invites them to play Mario Party.
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"LewDTuBeRs mAkE VTuBeRs LoOk bAd" crowd. 🧍🏻♀️
𝐹𝒪𝑅𝐸𝒮𝒯 𝒫𝑅𝐼𝒩𝒞𝐸@helluvamonster
A whole KKK meeting going on
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@NBinted It's such a rigged game. No apology is ever good enough if you hurt their feelings, but they can harass, threaten and slander to their hearts' content (and in the case of Chibi himself, flat out defraud his own viewers) without so much as a "My bad."
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The reason ChibiReviews isn't getting a full throated apology is because he isn't ready to apologise for anything himself. In a situation that he instigated and spent days escalating to the point of the most horrifying malicious rumours.
Doesn't seem to weigh on him at all.
deme@demenishki
I was ready to genuinely take this to the ground because of the idea that “why should i ever feel bad being rude to someone who’s a piece of shit”. After some reflection, the thought occurred to me, “do i really want to go as low as him though?” and the answer was no. I said what I said because I personally think there is no scenario that a friend group chooses the side of a fiancé that cheats. I can’t even fathom friends siding with a cheater. However, would I have brought it up if I knew he was suicidal because of it? no. I admitted it in the previous tweets so why didn’t I apologize? “because he’s this and that and blah” but I thought about it and that kinda ideology is quite harmful. I knew it was wrong and I admitted that twice but I didn’t apologize So after reflection, I am sorry. I’m sorry for bringing up a memory that made someone suicidal. It was a low blow even if I didn’t know regardless of whether he was intentionally being a piece of shit. I don’t want to stoop to his level. I rather be better and learn from my mistakes 🧡
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@Winter97205461 @TheDonOfEvery Vtubers are notoriously conflict-averse. They tend not to get involved in each other's problems, even if one of them is being torn apart by wolves. They don't want to get the wolves' attention.
It's not sustainable, and I think this will keep happening until they realize that.
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@TheDonOfEvery I'm confused where are the other vtubers she's friends with shouldn't they defend her?
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Let's be honest here Deme is genuinely such a sweet and amazing person.
Even after everything that’s been thrown at her the smears, the edited clips, the nonstop harassment from a whole cult she still took the time to reflect and apologize because she didn’t want to stoop to that level. She didn’t have to do that. A lot of people in her position wouldn’t have.
She cares deeply about her community. She made it clear that her apology wasn’t just for herself, but so her viewers and supporters could move on too. That kind of thoughtfulness says a lot about who she is as a person.
She’s been open about her own struggles while still showing up for the people who support her. She sets boundaries, stands up for herself when needed, and still tries to be better. That combination of strength and kindness is rare.
Deme is one of the good ones. We’re lucky to have her in this space. Plus she is just trying to enjoy her trip. Truly, I feel bad for all this toxic rhetoric thrown her way.
deme@demenishki
this place was the most foreigner friendly restaurant i think ive ever went to in Japan 🥺 taught me how to whisk matcha too
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@TheDonOfEvery She's a good one. Maybe a bit -too- good since acting in good faith towards someone who only wishes you harm can very easily be used against you.
Still, I'm glad she's enjoying herself, and it's nice to see this whole mess hasn't stopped her from living her life.
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@nyaraVT I appreciate her sense of goodwill, even if I think it's misguided. There's little of value to be had in extending grace to the graceless.
True to form, Chibi's already basically said it's not good enough. I think he wants to keep this going as long as he can milk it.
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Even if I don't think someone like Chibi, who pushes smear campaigns and creates a hostile environment for marginalised groups, does not deserve any sympathy..
I still respect when good people have empathy and don't want to stoop to their level.
deme@demenishki
I was ready to genuinely take this to the ground because of the idea that “why should i ever feel bad being rude to someone who’s a piece of shit”. After some reflection, the thought occurred to me, “do i really want to go as low as him though?” and the answer was no. I said what I said because I personally think there is no scenario that a friend group chooses the side of a fiancé that cheats. I can’t even fathom friends siding with a cheater. However, would I have brought it up if I knew he was suicidal because of it? no. I admitted it in the previous tweets so why didn’t I apologize? “because he’s this and that and blah” but I thought about it and that kinda ideology is quite harmful. I knew it was wrong and I admitted that twice but I didn’t apologize So after reflection, I am sorry. I’m sorry for bringing up a memory that made someone suicidal. It was a low blow even if I didn’t know regardless of whether he was intentionally being a piece of shit. I don’t want to stoop to his level. I rather be better and learn from my mistakes 🧡
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@SNSwagger @ChibiReviews And in true fashion, he acts like it isn't good enough while ignoring any role he played in encouraging the harassment by signalboosting lies about her.
I respect Deme for taking the high road, but he never deserved it.
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.@ChibiReviews responds to Deme’s apology
deme@demenishki
I was ready to genuinely take this to the ground because of the idea that “why should i ever feel bad being rude to someone who’s a piece of shit”. After some reflection, the thought occurred to me, “do i really want to go as low as him though?” and the answer was no. I said what I said because I personally think there is no scenario that a friend group chooses the side of a fiancé that cheats. I can’t even fathom friends siding with a cheater. However, would I have brought it up if I knew he was suicidal because of it? no. I admitted it in the previous tweets so why didn’t I apologize? “because he’s this and that and blah” but I thought about it and that kinda ideology is quite harmful. I knew it was wrong and I admitted that twice but I didn’t apologize So after reflection, I am sorry. I’m sorry for bringing up a memory that made someone suicidal. It was a low blow even if I didn’t know regardless of whether he was intentionally being a piece of shit. I don’t want to stoop to his level. I rather be better and learn from my mistakes 🧡
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@demenishki I admire your willingness to be the better person, but I fear it's wasted on this guy and his buddies. They don't want you to be sorry, they want you to be miserable, and apologizing won't deter them.
Hope at least you're well through all this, because that's what matters most.
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I was ready to genuinely take this to the ground because of the idea that “why should i ever feel bad being rude to someone who’s a piece of shit”. After some reflection, the thought occurred to me, “do i really want to go as low as him though?” and the answer was no.
I said what I said because I personally think there is no scenario that a friend group chooses the side of a fiancé that cheats. I can’t even fathom friends siding with a cheater.
However, would I have brought it up if I knew he was suicidal because of it? no. I admitted it in the previous tweets so why didn’t I apologize? “because he’s this and that and blah” but I thought about it and that kinda ideology is quite harmful. I knew it was wrong and I admitted that twice but I didn’t apologize
So after reflection, I am sorry. I’m sorry for bringing up a memory that made someone suicidal. It was a low blow even if I didn’t know regardless of whether he was intentionally being a piece of shit. I don’t want to stoop to his level. I rather be better and learn from my mistakes 🧡
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@NBinted Let him whine. In two weeks' time, Deme will be streaming and having fun with her community like nothing even happened, but Chibi will still be a miserable crybaby who has to tear people down and start beefs to feel good about himself.
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@SNSwagger "It's not normal for a post to get that many likes with 99% of the comments disagreeing with the main post"
Gee, it's almost like the outrage is coordinated and manufactured or something.
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@EverTrua_TTV I wish more people could be reached this way, but the unfortunate truth is that people who dogpile often know exactly what they're doing and explicitly want to cause harm. The people who most need to hear this message will just call you a slur for saying it.
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Friendly reminder that dogpiling on people can cause irreversible damage to someone’s mental health and well being.
Please take that into consideration before you harass someone online.
You can say hurtful words and do hateful things but know that you can never take them back and you can never undo damage that has been done by you.
Please don’t be the reason someone cries themselves to sleep at night.
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@kouvsevildead Y'know, I can't imagine why his fiancée had second thoughts.
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@nyaraVT Apparently she's the very first person to ever breathe heavily while playing a horror game.
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They call it "The Most Unemployed And Deranged Drama Ever"
Most of these timestamps literally only exist in the minds of delusional, misogynistic, chronically online losers, who got upset that a woman said "No." to them generating their goon material of her
Jetblackjay@riddenhour
@nyaraVT Multiple people are timestamping her getting backshots the entire vtubing community is slowly starting to talk about it
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@GMCouncilHypno @nyaraVT Regarding her ex, all I've seen are the "stabbing" accounts (she helped him during an episode and he accidentally scratched her) and a fake screenshot alleging SA.
We're not dealing with honest actors, so I would advise a healthy amount of skepticism when reviewing their claims.
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@nyaraVT I'm genuinely concerned for her because all the stuff "coming out" is worrying me. I'm trying to be positive and give her the benefit of the doubt (All the NSFW talk from her is perfectly OK. She has set boundaries and that's good) but the stuff with her ex...
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@hasanthehun Centrists were never afraid of NYC suffering. They were afraid of their own constituents seeing what can be done, then turning to them and saying "Why can’t we have that?"
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establishment democrats and republicans weren’t fearful he’d fail and ruin nyc. they were worried he’d succeed and represent the threat of a good alternative
🐝@beha_hun
Mamdani closed a $12B deficit in 132 days, fixed 100K+ potholes, secured millions for gig workers, fined corrupt landlords millions, raised snow workers to $30/hr, and violent crime hit historic lows. THIS IS WHAT A LEADER DOES!!
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@NBinted Of course she struck a nerve. Chibi and his ilk are entitled, insecure little boys obsessed with anime girls because they can't say no. An anime girl who stands up for herself and calls them out for what they are is a nightmare come true for them.
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Deme really hit a nerve with these weird guys holy fuck.
They're deploying their entire network of harassment accounts. Posts from 50 follower accounts with comically botted likes. Just going for ten different hitpiece angles hoping one will stick.
Just helpless victim stuff.
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@demenishki Enjoy your trip and pay no mind to the peanut gallery, girl. Let them scream into the void and shit themselves all they want, they'll have moved on to a new target for their Two Minutes' Hate in a week.
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Chibi fans want to preach about men’s mental health while making fun of a man’s suicide attempt. I got slashed accidentally when I pulled the scissors away from him; trying to save his life from a horrible decision. Their obsession with the cuck fantasy also checks out.
I had no idea that Chibi Reviews tried to take his own life, and i don’t wish that upon anyone. As I said before, I don’t care about the guy in general. I’m not gonna apologize to a guy who dated a teen when he’s pushing 30. Scammed his fans of thousands of dollars of a lawsuit that never happened. Never in my life have i heard of people siding with a cheating future wife in any scenario tbh. Yeah im not surprised the guy doesn’t understand boundaries / consent.
If you want to hate me through how I speak and carry myself- fair game. However, if you’re going to always complain about harassment in twitter and cause harassment on me getting physically harmed it makes 0 sense.
Anyway Imma continue my japan trip ✌️
Hayachii@hayachiichan
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