
S7VEN
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S7VEN
@S7VENLDN
Producer, Engineer, Musician & DJ | ✉️ - [email protected] | 🎵 - https://t.co/zFhfz5EQQY | https://t.co/IxJMM4qq8K


Hot take: If you're not getting what you want, you're not as smart as you think you are.

Chat, how do you support a friend who is ALWAYS(I’m not exaggerating) going through a difficult time? It’s like every month something new and bad happens to them? I care for them, but I’m dangling by a thread now. The emotional labour. 💔

People who bitch about people pleasers can never tell you why they let the people pleasing happen though. Like why did you take and take and take what the people pleaser was giving you if you think its so intrinsically manipulative?

I learned how easily people can be manipulated if you make them feel like they're smarter than/have something to teach you. But I also had to learn to check that impulse in myself. It feels good to think you're "teaching" someone, but you have to be mindful of the pedestal.

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