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Tajé Fleming

@Tsavagemofo7

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Pat Stedman | Dating & Relationship Coach for Men
Pat Stedman | Dating & Relationship Coach for Men@Pat_Stedman·
This is exactly what I'm talking about. Total clown show. You think this is just a rhetorical device, but this is genuinely the sentiment many of these church women have. If you jerked off to tits on your iphone at some point you're just as depraved as a woman who went through a "phase" racking up bodies before she "found Christ." And the absurdity is that when his wife (who's half the time a former party girl herself) is married and sexually frigid, her husband's clandestine wank sessions become a moral hysteria. The Church rebukes HIM. These people neither understand nor care to understand the male perspective or experience, they in fact despise the male sex drive, and the browbeaten men "in charge" pile on even as they have their own clandestine porn addiction. Shame, humiliation, followed by prostration in front of the women and their henpecked enforcers for their "redemption" is the crux of their religious experience. The women have moral authority and judge the men, but the men dare not judge the women. Being a "spiritual leader" in this environment means emphasizing as much as possible your lack of worthiness to lead. It's all an inversion of the actual gospel, and little more than frigid feminism couched in biblical language. The fruit it bears is completely rotten. What's the incentive for any man to participate?
Sarah Malcangi@MalcangiSarah

It’s completely normal to want a man who has never watched porn.

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Dr Boyce Watkins - Wealth is Power
Dr Boyce Watkins - Wealth is Power@drboycewatkins1·
Honest fact: a lot of people should probably not get married because if you never grew up watching your mother negotiate with your father, it may be difficult to accept the fact that there are times when you have to submit to someone else in order to maintain a peaceful household
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Matt Walsh
Matt Walsh@MattWalshBlog·
My take on the current discourse about the Christian man with the formerly “promiscuous” wife is that many of the comments towards the man and his wife have been uncharitable, cruel, and certainly un-Christian, but also that Christians these days often tend to be far too eager to tell the entire world about their past sins, which in most cases shows a lack of discretion and a certain lack of the sort of shame one should feel even for repented sins. Also, as a parent, I strongly believe that you generally should avoid telling your kids about your own wayward youth, because the kids will take such stories as an indication that they too can go off and have fun sinning and things will turn out okay, just as they did for you. Also you undermine your own moral authority when you instruct your children not to do the very things you have admitted to having done yourself. Finally, the man’s line about how his wife “is more pure than most virgins” is prideful and shows a kind of competitiveness and vanity that should simply not ever appear in any Prodigal Son style testimony. Imagine if the Prodigal Son had returned and announced himself not only repentant but “more pure” than the brother who stayed? It would kind of destroy the point of the story. So in summary I basically disagree with everyone on this.
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Cassie Clark
Cassie Clark@dogwoodblooms·
A guy went viral yesterday for giving testimony about marrying a promiscuous woman. It was sweet. Kind of. The idea was spot on: God can change minds and hearts. Through Him, we can find salvation. That’s beautiful and true. But the post missed the mark in a BIG way that no one is talking about. Here’s the problem: a marriage is a sacred union between two people and God. Not a union between two people, God, and millions of people. In a marriage done right, you know things about your spouse that no one else does. You are your spouse’s vault—a secret keeper, a protector. You don’t out your spouse’s secrets. You don’t shame them publicly. You don’t put them in a position to be judged by strangers. Not even with the best of intentions. You protect their heart, their mind, and their reputation. And you do it with the same care that you protect your own—because the two of you are one. ❤️
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Dom Lucre | Breaker of Narratives
Dom Lucre | Breaker of Narratives@dom_lucre·
🔥🚨BREAKING: Adult content Influencer Elisa Buj, filmed herself torturing her cat with clothespins on Snapchat.
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Basket-Infos
Basket-Infos@Basket_Infos·
« Il m’a énormément appris. En le regardant, je me disais : ‘Oui, je veux être comme ça.’ » Les Hornets affrontaient les Kings cette nuit, l’occasion de retrouvailles entre Moussa Diabaté et Russell Westbrook, qui ont évolué ensemble aux Clippers. Le meneur a été un vétéran important pour le Français. Les deux ont échangé quelques mots. Moussa Diabaté : « C’était mon vétéran. Donc pour moi, c’est un moment un peu particulier, comme une boucle qui se referme. Surtout que je ne jouais pas beaucoup avec les Clippers. J’ai oublié de le lui dire, mais oui, il m’a énormément appris. Surtout quand tu vois la carrière qu’il a eue, et l’énergie qu’il a encore à son âge, c’est fou. Je ne pense pas que les gens s’en rendent compte. Même à l’entraînement… les gens ne le voient pas, mais nous, on le voyait tous les jours quand j’étais encore avec les Clippers. Il avait plus d’énergie que des gars qui venaient juste d’être draftés. C’était hallucinant. Et pour moi, c’était : ‘Mince, moi aussi je veux être comme ça. Il faut que je sois comme ça.’ Surtout en tant que joueur qui se nourrit justement de cette énergie. En le regardant, je me disais : ‘Oui, je veux être comme ça.’ Donc il a fallu que j’apprenne de lui. Je l’observais, je lui posais des questions. Donc oui, dans ce domaine-là, il m’a vraiment beaucoup aidé. »
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NBA Courtside
NBA Courtside@NBA__Courtside·
Charlie Villanueva on Patrick Beverly comments saying Dame Lillard is not a Hall of Famer: “I hear what he is saying, he is top 75. I hear what Pat Bev is saying, but I can’t agree with it because the standard is already been made. No disrespect to fu*king Tim Hardaway Sr. But he is a Hall of Famer, so he is a great fu*king player fu*king phenomenal. But Dame Lillard or Tim Hardaway. It’s Dame Lillard to me. So it’s a no brainer Hall of Famer.” (Via @ToTheBaha)
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Patrick Beverly says Dame Lilliard is NOT a Hall of Famer: “HELL NO… It’s too many people getting in the Hall of Fame. Hall of Fame has to be a convo of points, rebounds, assist, playoff wins, championships. How we gonna say no to D Rose who has a MVP but yes to Dame? If he gets a chip, for sure. Scoring a lot of points on ‘ok’ teams I don’t think that gets you into the hall of fame” (Via @patbev21)

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Tajé Fleming@Tsavagemofo7·
@kangminlee Dude is trying is hardest to virtue signal. There’s no need to elaborate on your wife’s past. Gotta protect your wife’s dignity. Because this kind of behavior is emasculating oneself. Telling the world your wife was promiscuous and a cam girl is ruining her dignity.
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Tajé Fleming@Tsavagemofo7·
He different fr… ion think ppl realize how hard it is mentally and physically just to be PJ in the US Air Force.
Christopher Wipper@SGTWipper1Each

David Goggins, 51, has quietly reenlisted in the Air Force at the rank of Master Sergeant and is currently assigned to the Special Warfare Training Wing, according to officials. He is undergoing training with the goal of completing the elite Air Force pararescue program, which he previously attempted years ago.

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Dom Lucre | Breaker of Narratives
Dom Lucre | Breaker of Narratives@dom_lucre·
🔥🚨BREAKING GRAPHIC WARNING: This ‘freaky’ 31-year-old woman named Nicolette Keough was arrested for intentionally urinating on antique furniture, television, record player, coffee pot, some bedding, some carpeting and a rug in two separate Airbnbs in Pensacola FL while filming adult content.
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Tajé Fleming@Tsavagemofo7·
@ineedanothernap @TrevorSheatz Being their decision doesn’t make it beyond reflection. The point is about wisdom in how something is said, not control over who says it. I’ve read her testimony she spoke on new age yoga, witchcraft, and drugs, and ofc formication. He didn’t mention that in the testimony.
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Mrs. FD
Mrs. FD@ineedanothernap·
@Tsavagemofo7 @TrevorSheatz And that discernment is left to the parties involved, not you 😊 his wife regularly shares her testimony online and I’m certain they discussed this beforehand.
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Mrs. FD
Mrs. FD@ineedanothernap·
Just as a reminder, if someone's sexual past is too much for you, you're in no way obligated to marry them. It wasn't too much for Trevor. No reason to let this fact enrage you. God bless them both. What a testimony.
Trevor Sheatz@TrevorSheatz

My wife was formerly promiscuous. I was a virgin. She was then radically born-again. Committed to church, evangelized constantly, Puritan books in her bedroom, prayer journals, grief over past sexual sin, etc. We got to know each other well for over a year, dated for four months, engaged for two and a half, and didn't sin sexually with one another. Our first kiss with each other was at the altar on our wedding day (reaction pic attached!). We've been married for over five years now, and she's been the most wonderful and godly wife, mother to our three children, and homemaker you could imagine. She's more pure than most virgins, as biblical purity has less to with past sins (though they certainly matter) and more to do with one's current posture of the heart and daily decisions to honor the Lord (Matt. 5:8). We're far too quick to forget the story of the woman labeled as a known "sinner" (likely a prostitute) in Luke 7:36-50 who was washing Jesus' feet with her tears while kissing them too. The Pharisees were shocked that Jesus let a public sinner do this. Jesus responded with a parable about debts being forgiven and ended with this powerful conclusion: "Her many sins have been forgiven; that’s why she loved much. But the one who is forgiven little, loves little" (Luke 7:47). Everyone seems to highlight the benefits of virginity, and it certainly is a blessing. But we forget to highlight the benefits of being forgiven much as well. My wife knows the depths of Jesus' forgiveness more than most people, enabling her to more easily live out a life of passionate love for her Savior. A woman or man's past sexual sin matters. But what matters far more when it comes to deciding who to marry is if the person is truly born again, if their repentance is real, if they truly have a heart for Christ, if they truly follow Jesus and obey his commands. "God has chosen what is foolish in the world to shame the wise, and God has chosen what is weak in the world to shame the strong. God has chosen what is insignificant and despised in the world ​— ​what is viewed as nothing ​— ​to bring to nothing what is viewed as something, so that no one may boast in his presence. It is from him that you are in Christ Jesus, who became wisdom from God for us ​— ​our righteousness, sanctification, and redemption, — in order that, as it is written: 'Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.'" (1 Cor. 1:27-31) "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, and see, the new has come!" (2 Cor. 5:17)

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Tajé Fleming@Tsavagemofo7·
@FlorioGina Dignity is as valuable as today as it is was back then. Wisdom is everything. I don’t think it was intent to humiliate his wife, I think he means well. But I don’t think he had enough wisdom in trying to tell her testimony that protected her dignity.
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Gina
Gina@FlorioGina·
There is no sin Christ cannot wash away. But that doesn’t change the fact that this kind of post is yet another reason why so many young men are turned off by marriage. This is not an appealing display of the union between a husband and wife. Shouting about your wife’s sexual past seems like a humiliation ritual to young men who are already struggling to find a virtuous woman. Also probably a good time to remind everyone that after St Mary of Egypt renounced her promiscuous ways, she retreated to the desert for 40 years in repentance, not took to the public square to share unnecessarily intimate details about her past sins.
Trevor Sheatz@TrevorSheatz

My wife was formerly promiscuous. I was a virgin. She was then radically born-again. Committed to church, evangelized constantly, Puritan books in her bedroom, prayer journals, grief over past sexual sin, etc. We got to know each other well for over a year, dated for four months, engaged for two and a half, and didn't sin sexually with one another. Our first kiss with each other was at the altar on our wedding day (reaction pic attached!). We've been married for over five years now, and she's been the most wonderful and godly wife, mother to our three children, and homemaker you could imagine. She's more pure than most virgins, as biblical purity has less to with past sins (though they certainly matter) and more to do with one's current posture of the heart and daily decisions to honor the Lord (Matt. 5:8). We're far too quick to forget the story of the woman labeled as a known "sinner" (likely a prostitute) in Luke 7:36-50 who was washing Jesus' feet with her tears while kissing them too. The Pharisees were shocked that Jesus let a public sinner do this. Jesus responded with a parable about debts being forgiven and ended with this powerful conclusion: "Her many sins have been forgiven; that’s why she loved much. But the one who is forgiven little, loves little" (Luke 7:47). Everyone seems to highlight the benefits of virginity, and it certainly is a blessing. But we forget to highlight the benefits of being forgiven much as well. My wife knows the depths of Jesus' forgiveness more than most people, enabling her to more easily live out a life of passionate love for her Savior. A woman or man's past sexual sin matters. But what matters far more when it comes to deciding who to marry is if the person is truly born again, if their repentance is real, if they truly have a heart for Christ, if they truly follow Jesus and obey his commands. "God has chosen what is foolish in the world to shame the wise, and God has chosen what is weak in the world to shame the strong. God has chosen what is insignificant and despised in the world ​— ​what is viewed as nothing ​— ​to bring to nothing what is viewed as something, so that no one may boast in his presence. It is from him that you are in Christ Jesus, who became wisdom from God for us ​— ​our righteousness, sanctification, and redemption, — in order that, as it is written: 'Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.'" (1 Cor. 1:27-31) "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, and see, the new has come!" (2 Cor. 5:17)

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Tajé Fleming@Tsavagemofo7·
@TrevorSheatz @ineedanothernap Redemption is worth celebrating. But so is honor. How we tell a testimony matter especially when it involves someone we’re called to protect. Redemption doesn’t remove the need for discretion. There’s a way to testify to grace that honors both God and the person involved.
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Trevor Sheatz
Trevor Sheatz@TrevorSheatz·
@ineedanothernap I completely agree with you, sister. Thank you for the encouraging words! God bless you. ☺️
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Tajé Fleming@Tsavagemofo7·
“My wife was promiscuous and I was a virgin.” The first sentence……. There’s a difference between sharing a testimony and unnecessarily framing someone’s past in a way that dishonors them. Grace doesn’t just forgive it also shapes how we speak about people. I read her testimony and it didn’t align with his first sentenced in the testimony.
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𝐂𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐥@homemakinghunny·
I am tired. Tired of so called Christians acting like Christ’s redemption isn’t enough. Acting like we need to earn his forgiveness. Acting like his mercies aren’t new every morning. Acting like you’re better than someone just because you keep your sins hidden and they share how God radically saved them from their sin. Judging someone for sharing their testimony and how God saved them is so low and to say it simply - it doesn’t show the fruit of Christ in your life.
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Tajé Fleming@Tsavagemofo7·
Y’all confuse grace and mercy as the standard. GOD is holy. Y’all never mention how GOD killed his own ppl, allowed them to be slaves, allowed them to be conquered by their enemies. Don’t take GOD’s grace and mercy for granted. GOD shows both to let mankind knows his will is no one to perish but live in harmony with him. GOD isn’t a cuck and wimp who has no standards.
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Faithfulness Okom
Faithfulness Okom@AttorneyF_·
God married a whore. In Hosea 1:2, God instructs a prophet to marry a prostitute as a living parable of His own relationship with Israel. I’ll admit my first instinct seeing this post was to recoil. Then I did my quiet time. In Hosea, Gomer is not background detail. She is the crux of the whole story. Hosea takes her back after she leaves him. He buys her back out of slavery as God tells him to. Because that is what God does. Rahab was a prostitute in Jericho. She is in the lineage of Christ. Matthew 1 puts her there without apology or asterisk. The woman who washed Jesus’ feet with her tears in Luke 7 was a known public sinner, likely a prostitute. The Pharisee hosting the dinner was disgusted that Jesus let her touch him. Jesus told the Pharisee that the person forgiven most loves most. He did not say she was tolerated. He said she understood grace better than the religious man throwing the dinner party. The pattern is clear, this is not one story. This is every generation being confronted with the same scandalous imagery and recoiling the same way. Because the scandal does not stop in the Old Testament. Paul tells husbands in Ephesians 5 to love their wives the way Christ loves the Church. And who is the Church? She is the bride of Christ. She is not a worthy or befitting bride. She is a people steeped in idolatry, rebellion, and spiritual adultery, bought back at the cost of His life. In the Old Testament, God tells Hosea to marry Gomer. In the New Testament, Christ marries us. The parable is the same only that the stage is larger. This post or this man’s union is not more scandalous than the gospel. The gospel tells us that a sinless God dies in the place of a guilty people who neither deserved it nor asked for it is the whole gospel. The scandal is not incidental to the story. It is the story. None of us gets to be comfortable. All of us recoiling at this testimony are doing exactly what the Pharisees did. They saw sinners near Jesus and called it contamination. Jesus said that was the entire point. So if this makes you uncomfortable, that discomfort is not a problem with the post. It is a problem with your gospel.
Trevor Sheatz@TrevorSheatz

My wife was formerly promiscuous. I was a virgin. She was then radically born-again. Committed to church, evangelized constantly, Puritan books in her bedroom, prayer journals, grief over past sexual sin, etc. We got to know each other well for over a year, dated for four months, engaged for two and a half, and didn't sin sexually with one another. Our first kiss with each other was at the altar on our wedding day (reaction pic attached!). We've been married for over five years now, and she's been the most wonderful and godly wife, mother to our three children, and homemaker you could imagine. She's more pure than most virgins, as biblical purity has less to with past sins (though they certainly matter) and more to do with one's current posture of the heart and daily decisions to honor the Lord (Matt. 5:8). We're far too quick to forget the story of the woman labeled as a known "sinner" (likely a prostitute) in Luke 7:36-50 who was washing Jesus' feet with her tears while kissing them too. The Pharisees were shocked that Jesus let a public sinner do this. Jesus responded with a parable about debts being forgiven and ended with this powerful conclusion: "Her many sins have been forgiven; that’s why she loved much. But the one who is forgiven little, loves little" (Luke 7:47). Everyone seems to highlight the benefits of virginity, and it certainly is a blessing. But we forget to highlight the benefits of being forgiven much as well. My wife knows the depths of Jesus' forgiveness more than most people, enabling her to more easily live out a life of passionate love for her Savior. A woman or man's past sexual sin matters. But what matters far more when it comes to deciding who to marry is if the person is truly born again, if their repentance is real, if they truly have a heart for Christ, if they truly follow Jesus and obey his commands. "God has chosen what is foolish in the world to shame the wise, and God has chosen what is weak in the world to shame the strong. God has chosen what is insignificant and despised in the world ​— ​what is viewed as nothing ​— ​to bring to nothing what is viewed as something, so that no one may boast in his presence. It is from him that you are in Christ Jesus, who became wisdom from God for us ​— ​our righteousness, sanctification, and redemption, — in order that, as it is written: 'Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.'" (1 Cor. 1:27-31) "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, and see, the new has come!" (2 Cor. 5:17)

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