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Njeri
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I once had a woman tell me that you have to accept there is a trade-off. If you want a baby, want to be a mother, and want to raise children, there is a price to pay. That price is the discomfort of pregnancy, the pain of labor, and the strain that follows, especially in the early period with sleep deprivation and everything that comes with it.
She said you decide up front, “I am going to pay the cost,” and then you pay it willingly, without complaint, and with a free heart. When you do that, the suffering becomes far easier to bear.
She explained that if you frame it as persecution, as if something unfair is being done to you, you suffer twice. You suffer the event itself, and you suffer from the belief that you have been wronged.
I saw the same attitude in my own wife. Her mindset was, “I am a woman, of course I can handle this. This is what we are built for.” Even with unexpected complications in both pregnancies, that orientation made the entire process easier.
It was a far better approach than complaining, and it made things easier for everyone, not just her.
Mack@kenzietuff
The way to “get through” any pregnancy, regardless of circumstance, is to surrender and do so graciously. Not min/max. Let go. You can have pity parties the entire time or you can completely surrender to the ride and mentally prepare to meet your newest baby. You cannot do both.
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Babies medicines are flavored and sweetened because they think children want it that way
But no one thinks about us as adults. I want to bite into strawberry paracetamol, not that bitter thing they force me to take
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She literally explained that the discomfort of discipline is nothing compared to the pain of regret.
tendollar@tendollardanny
i don’t know who needs to hear this. you need to solve everything now. right now. you are running out of time
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I can’t stress this enough.
Marry someone who has their finances in order. They don’t have to be rich, but they should at least be able to hold things down.
There will be moments when you’re vulnerable, like during pregnancy, when you may have to depend on them financially. That’s not the time to discover they can’t carry the weight. Don’t gamble your life.
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I said it before, am saying it again, one day someone will look at Kenya and say, here lie the ruins of a country destroyed by greed.
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since everyone naturally tend to keep all their best habits & sleep & other life hacks to themselves and never tell anyone
let's make this a thread where you post habits or things that significantly made your life better, and that you continued to do/use for at least 6 months
gabriel@gabriel1
when i find a new extremely good life habit, i naturally start telling others about it but then half you mf have slept with ear plugs for years?? WHY DID YOU NOT TELL US, it's super common apparently??
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Facts.
Particularly when it comes to career.
Don’t give up.
More importantly don’t stay still, all you’re doing is getting more experience in a field you don’t care about.
If you’re actually stuck, in a dead end job.
Do this today:
Ms.K@mskmalibu
to my 25 - 35 year olds, you have reached the age where people around you are starting to give up on themselves because they think it’s too late. don’t let that energy rub off on you. it’s not too late
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Damn y'alls daddies don't teach y'all the importance of being a man of your word anymore??
WES@wdrj1002
I mean how much different can it look from sunday that it needed to be cut today😭
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I have come to realize that regret is a cruel storyteller. It rewrites the past with the wisdom of the present, convincing you that you should have known better when you actually had no way of knowing.
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"How can I keep my daughter, 9-years-old, away from this danger on the internet?"
x.com/GreaseTheWheel…
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You have to infuse every day with pleasure. Not sexual pleasure, but true pleasure. Nurture all your senses. Feel the sun on your face. Eat delicious fruits with your hands. Watch the sunset. Read a good book. Take your time drinking your coffee. Play or dance. Laugh every day
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Never let your competence be questioned in any room.
Your expertise speaks louder than words and your work defines your value. Whether you’re leading campaigns, crafting strategies, or delivering results, stand firm in your abilities.
Confidence, backed by skill, is the best response to doubt.
#MarketingExpert #Branding #PR
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And Safaricom gives a 6 month maternity leave? Then another 6 months of half day working?
Eyi Jameni
Nyandia Gachago, ACIM@Nyandia_G
Wow! Microsoft give Women a 5 month Maternity Leave? That is really amazing.
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