Kings

There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman wanting what her parents never had. Everyone aims to live a better life. Should a girl, because she came from a poor background, now aim to settle with a poor man? The importance of the economic part of marriage can never be overstated. I always say that two poor people should not be getting married. A woman who is pretty, educated, has a job or business, and a decent character can aim to marry a man who is rich, and she is not aiming for too much. I know a few women whose lives were transformed because of the men they married. They are living their best lives, have beautiful children, and most importantly, are happily married. Meanwhile, those who settled for less are struggling with their husbands. There is no fun in poverty. I cannot fault anyone who does anything legal to break free from it. We should stop victimizing women who look to marry wealthy men. If the men themselves deem her worthy to marry, that is great. Women who love to build with a man should build. The ones who love managing should continue doing so. Those who are attracted to broke men, good for them. The ones who can only marry wealthy men, perfect. Everyone should do what works for them.

Whatever he’s doing to your parents you too do to his parents.

Everybody don bant Ibadan now no wahala o If we talk Anambra nobody should shout bigotry

In Igbo land, a woman is not allowed to eat the chicken gizzard. It must be eaten by a male. In the absence of her husband or a male adult, a male would rather eat the gizzard than an adult woman eating it. And if there is no male around, she would keep it and wait for a male or even trash it.

clearly remember our conference call with you and the other vendors. When we didn’t agree to your price, you angrily dropped the call. I didn’t reach out afterward because I don’t tolerate any form of disrespect. Days later, you returned, this time speaking calmly and humbly, saying you were willing to work with our budget. Even then, I didn’t push or bargain further; I still gave you the deal in good faith. I always sensed this moment would come, and honestly, I’m glad it came sooner rather than later. There are several things about your conduct that don’t sit right with me, even if I can’t prove them. As I’ve said before, this will be my final response to you. You’re free to continue playing the pity card.