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😞 working on your own anxiety

... you're kidding

Jesus was EXTREMELY gentle with sinners. And he was EXTREMELY firm with people who wore religious language without transformation.

@shrili_ i think it balances out w my other fire&water placements tbh

@bbbubbbless that's quite airy, tho

this is no hate, but this made me immediately think, "when air signs tell me they love scorpios"

my biggest irk is even in healthy relationships the girls become softer, more polite versions of themselves while the guys get to keep their personality intact

@shrili_ i got libra (chitra) rising and mercury + gemini (mrig) moon on sidereal anyway 🤧

@bbbubbbless oh, let me guess, you didn't know this was abt sidereal?

oppression intersects

hey yall know seasoning has little to no calories right? its important to me that you all know you can season your food 😭 no one is forcing you to eat unseasoned chicken please slap some cayenne on ts

¿Es normal que una persona tenga más de 90 viviendas para rentar? No, la acumulación de viviendas recrudece la desigualdad en la tenencia y uso de la vivienda. Los anfitriones de Airbnb no son tiernos viejitos que quieren un ingreso extra, son inmobiliarias disfrazadas.

It’s important to tell people what you want. 20% of men want to use your body like a pin cushion but are up front about it. 20% of men want something serious and meaningful. But, the worst men, the ones to avoid, are the 60% who are fence sitters, feet draggers, time wasters…those bland men who have no idea what they want. Their ambivalence will kill you. Be hot or cold and spit out the lukewarm.

imagine being an air sign in a house of water signs

gaps in relationships: - restaurant gap (going out vs. staying in) - museum gap (do you want wander vs. sprint) - travel gap (need to travel a lot vs. fine with 1-2 trips a year) - money gap (spending heavily vs. stingy) - living gap (city vs. suburb vs. middle of nowhere) - ambition gap (highly driven vs. ok with career not being focal POV) - texting gap (heavy communicator vs. sporadic) - friend gap (big social group vs. 1-2 friends max)

Dos casos reales. En uno, una mujer es interceptada por su expareja afuera de su casa: golpes, jaloneos y las manos al cuello hasta que no puede respirar; se salva mordiéndolo y huyendo. En otro, dentro del hogar que compartían, él se le sube encima, la ahorca, le dice que la va a matar, la patea y la deja al borde del desmayo hasta que interviene una vecina. Fiscalías acusaron tentativa de feminicidio. Los hechos están probados. La violencia también. ¿El resultado? No es tentativa. Solo violencia familiar y lesiones. ¿Por qué? Porque el estándar que están usando los tribunales es brutalmente alto: no basta estrangular, no basta amenazar de muerte, no basta someter con violencia extrema. Exigen acreditar, casi con lógica de necropsia frustrada, que la muerte ya estaba en curso: presión suficiente, tiempo suficiente, daño vital verificable. Si la víctima logra escapar, si no hay huella clínica contundente de asfixia letal, el sistema dice: “no alcanzó”. Y ahí es donde el derecho se vuelve profundamente cuestionable, porque está pidiendo que el intento de matar deje prácticamente las mismas huellas que un homicidio que no se consumó. Y esto, desde una visión seria de violencia familiar, es inaceptable. El estrangulamiento es uno de los indicadores más claros de riesgo feminicida. No es una lesión más: es una antesala de muerte. Si el sistema no logra nombrarlo como tentativa, el problema no es solo de prueba, es de comprensión. Se necesita mejor investigación forense, sí, pero también jueces que entiendan lo que significa que alguien te apriete el cuello y te diga que te va a matar. Porque si eso no es tentativa… entonces estamos esperando a que el siguiente caso ya no tenga posibilidad de contarse.

this does not apply to 8h men. even when they're celibate they're still following hundreds of girls on social media, they talk to another bunch for validation and on top of all they got a porn addiction

@gettedemi_ neptune conj ic, so it squares my ac and dc and opposes my mc it literally just creates confusion in all aspects of my life. issues w projection, idealization and vague life direction too

If your Sun, Moon, Rising, Mercury, Venus or Mars forms a major aspect to Neptune, you have a special connection to music and the arts. If it’s a trine, conjunction or sextile, you may have known this since you were little. If it’s a square or opposition, it may be more of a

I asked my ex once what he likes about me. Pretty face, nice body and hair, dresses well, excellent interior design taste, good cook/housekeeper, good mother, and excellent gift giver. Nothing at all about me as a person, just appearances and what I do for others. He was never in love with ME. I wish I had realized a lot sooner.

China just implemented a 13% tax on condoms to try to boost birth rates. Let that sink in: taxing reproductive autonomy to coerce women into motherhood. This is what happens when governments treat women's bodies as state resources. Our choices are not negotiable.

The loneliest thing about being a woman attracted to intelligence is realizing most men want you to be smart enough to understand them but not so smart that you question them.