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i miss when pinterest wasn't infested with ai generated pictures, it's so fucking disappointing to witness

just found out i’m three steps of separation away from lucas bergvall (i know he’s not single but let me have this)

OH MY GOD ITS VICTORIA FUCKING SECRET CAN WE ALL GET OVER OURSELVES

@evilsquirtlords we can never win 🫩 at least we have each other

@chherrybb Im so tired of this. If we date A man we're in a straight passing relationship and if we date a woman. We're lesbians its so tiring

we literally have one month to just celebrate who we are but y’all choose to do shit like this instead. also, once again, someone directs things towards just bi women because y’all see bi men as gay and bi women as straight!

@destroysheev THIS!! like yay i can hide a part of me to be accepted 😍😍😍 as if that’s something we should want

@chherrybb This concept of oh you actually don't get to complain about oppression because you can always just hide part of yourself and date the opposite gender and be socially accepted! Is crazy like wow yeah that sounds fucking awesome dude . Ik the tiktok is abt people who currently are

@conangrayskull they can only have one thought at a time in their minds 🫩 like it’s never occurred to them that people of all sexualities are complex and face challenges

@chherrybb wipe out all the biphobic people they’re so small minded and stupid my god

@nikishadyfacts wow, that’s awful! 😔 sadly i stay away from a lot of lgbtq content during pride month bc i always see so much biphobia (my algorithm thinks any bi-content is good content…). i love the community so much but i also have a complicated relationship with it

@chherrybb Atp we should make our own month bc it’s beyond disgraceful that these people are trying to push us out so badly. I’ve seen some of them refer to us as fucking fleshlights which is incredible misogyny and dehumanising. God dammit we all deserve love and sunshine

@cryluavr i mostly wrote this post because i think it’s 1) important that we support everyone in the community, 2) i hate how these posts are /always/ about bisexual women and how they’re ”straight passing” but like i said, i totally understand your pov

@chherrybb yes many ppl see bi men as gay, and bi women as straight. which is biphobic. but they are talking about the women posting their bfs specifically for pride. if i saw a man posting his gf for pride i’d feel the same way (unless it’s made clear their partner is also bisexual/ pan)

@cryluavr i totally understand and partly agree! the conversation is much more nuanced and i really didn’t think anyone would care about my post. i can understand why it would come off as insensitive, at the same time i’m tired of the ”oppression olympics” especially during pride month 🫩

@KioskKoop LMAO this made me laugh 😭😭😭 like they’re so obsessed

@wreckroses @chherrybb "me stupid, me twitter user, me post about bisexual people 24/7 and then me act confused when bisexual discourse pops up, me hate bisexual, me never see anything wrong with biphobia" you're actually mentally ill

@lavenderoface05 this!! there are so many more issues we face as a community :(

@chherrybb Or that if I was dating a woman or single couldn’t adopt a child in Hungary. Genuinely these people prove every single time just how privileged and out of touch they are with reality

@kirbeemo RIGHT?! it’s always the same: one bisexual does something and suddenly it’s about all bisexuals and how all bisexuals do this or think this or have the same experience 🫩🫩

@chherrybb has any bi woman done what they keep being accused of here on a large enough scale to warrant 50 of these posts

@comans_taylor 100% agree! i didn’t think anyone would care about my post but this is exactly the way i think – ofc it’s different when you’re in a ”straight” relationship, but we still face discrimination :( often from within the community, sadly

@chherrybb Exactly. A bisexual woman’s sexuality doesn’t magically change because she’s dating a man. She’s still bisexual. We can acknowledge that visibly queer couples often face different kinds of discrimination without erasing bi women or acting like they’re “basically straight.”

@yurifetti ABSOLUTELY!! i love ur pfp 🥹

@chherrybb i love the way u think queen we should be oomfs

@ShianthiEstrada and also the fact that these posts are ALWAYS directed towards bisexual women 🫩 but yeah i understand ur comment and i mostly agree! (2/2)

@chherrybb Ok one hand, as a bi woman... I obviosly have faced discrimination AND I think we all deserve sunshine but I wouldnt post that using an image of a straight relationships that nobody would be against... Hating on bi woman as a lesbian is totally stupid AND mysogenist

@ShianthiEstrada i agree with you! the conversation is much more nuanced than what i wrote (i didn’t think anyone would even see my post lol) – my biggest problem is just the ”oppression olympics” where everyone within the community constantly tells others that ”xyz have it worse” (1/2)

@strawberrimuti i agree with all of your replies! like, we have bigger fish to fry than hating each other when we’re in the same community 😭

@chherrybb negatively criticized people in the community along with aroace individuals because of their preferences, which isn’t right at all. People need to realize that bisexuality is valid and they need to stop trying erase bi individuals, if you’re biphobic, then you’re homophobic, no

@urhereforme also i know there are a lot of people in the community who support bisexuals, but like you said, sometimes it feels like a lot of people just complain about bisexuals 😔

@chherrybb I'm exhausted of biphobia bruh why does it feel like i'm the only lesbian who gaf about y'all 😭😭😭😭

@urhereforme we love you and support you too!! /gen

@xaninite i agree! i understand that us bisexuals don’t have it harder or worse than anyone else, but people think it’s as simple as ”oh you’re in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex? u must never have encountered hate for your sexuality” like that’s not how it works 😭

@chherrybb i gotta admit im sick of no intersectionality in these posts. Yea maybe two white bi people could pass fine but interracial and interfaith relationships invite oppression and being hate crimed. Like its no so simple