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After much nudging, you can also find me where the skies are blue. (Same handle)
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@dreamsofskies
She/Her/Dude. #ADHD, #ActuallyAutistic, demisexual. Still yelling about COVID. Listen to disabled people. pfp: @alohasushicore
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์ผ Haziran 2012
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One of the reasons people don't recognize ADHD as a disability is that they see ADHD struggles (with things like organisation, tidyness, timeliness, communication etc) as personal failings. That is ableism.
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@terrifiergf See also; clitoral adhesions. Extremely common, and so many people that have them have NO idea because it's always looked like that.
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i used to be confused by the โmen cant find the clitโ jokes until i learned a lot of women with innies actually dont have visible clitoral hoods ๐ถโ๐ซ๏ธ
๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ฅ@despairations
all this orgasm discourseโฆ just learn where the clit is. make her cum before you do. itโs not rocket science
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I really miss people respecting each other's time and space. Before cell phones became widely used, people didn't expect constant or immediate communication. We were allowed to work and have lives, and get back to people when we had free time or felt like talking. Now they say "eVeRyOnE hAs A pHoNe On ThEm, iT tAkEs 5 sEcOnDs To RePLy"
Okay well maybe I'm not in the mood to be on my phone? Maybe I'm doing something that requires total focus? Maybe I like quiet time? Maybe I don't like talking to everybody I know all day? Maybe I need time to process what my reply is gonna be? Maybe my day sucked and I just wanna scroll mindlessly instead of having to engage meaningfully with another human? I hate what it's become. Instant gratification instead of patience.
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Procrasticlean strikes again!
Litterbox Comics@LitterboxComics
NEW COMIC: Spring Clean This comic wrote itself!
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Developing narcolepsy and finding out you basically cant leave the house without a chaperone because sleeping in public makes people assume you are homeless or on drugs and thus subhuman was extremely eye opening
ใใใกใใ@AgingAnarchist
ใขใกใชใซใ่ปใฎไธญใงๅฏใฆใใใจใใใฏใใใฆใใๅคงไธๅคซใใฃใฆ่จใใใใใจใใใใใใใผใใฌในใใฉใณใงๅฏใกใใใจ่ฟฝใๅบใใใใ่ญฆๅฏๅผใฐใใใใๆๆฅญไธญใซๅฏใฆใใใจๆๆใใใฎใใใๆใใไผ่ญฐใงๅฏใฆใใใจ็ธๅฝใใฐใใไบบๅใงๅฏใใจใใ่ก็บใๆฅๆฌไบบใ่ใใฆใใใใใฏใใใซ่ฏใใชใใใจใ ใจๆใใใ
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@TsaiMeLemoni I feel like this has to be some kind of ragebait thing?? I know a lot of people don't think enough, but I feel like this thing should be a basic childhood cognitive milestone or something!
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I refuse to believe ppl actually self-insert that way when reading first-person pov
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@wrath_776 @veggiequeen420 Oh yeah seconding the rotating autoship and shopping around too. Just make sure you mark your calendar to cancel the thing so you don't accidentally undo your savings. ๐
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@veggiequeen420 I check chewy, petco, and petsmart every weekend (+ stack w rakuten who often has 10% back deals) and stock up when I can find a deal, usually by starting a new autoship order that i will cancel. Its incredibly annoying but I do save probably 20% off retail on average
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okay bulk pet food: where tf are we buying? Chewy ainโt what it used to be and my dog wonโt entertain Costco food
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@veggiequeen420 I pay $20 a month for the Petco membership thing which gives you 10% off food across the board*. They also give you $15 a month in rewards, and the rewards expiration window is longer. You also get some vet benefits too. Pays for itself
*Excluding food for wild birds and poultry
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@MaskedHottiee I don't have student loans but my partner does; I had no idea this was a thing. If they're eligible this could be life changing for them.
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If you are disabled please look into the total and permanent discharge. Your doctor can fill out a form to get your federal student loans dismissed
The Debt Collective ๐ฅ@StrikeDebt
If you have federal student debt, you may have recently received an email from the Department of Education telling student debtors who are in the SAVE forbearance to switch plans. We want to encourage you to not rush this next step. Take a deep breath. You have until September.
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I donโt think people understand just how bad the end of life care crisis is about to become. The youngest boomers are in their 60s. There arenโt enough assisted living beds in this country and even if there were there arenโt enough staff. Itโs ridiculous expensive to die slowly.
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seeing a lot of "higher gas prices won't affect me because I don't drive very much" and unfortunately it is my sad duty to inform you that your food does not teleport to the grocery store
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one way you can help homeless ppl is by paying for a storage unit for however long they need, iโd be fucked without one.
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Further ADHD-narcolepsy similarities
Brandon Luu, MD@BrandonLuuMD
ADHD brains seem to slip into brief โsleep-likeโ states even while awake. These sleep-like slow waves were linked to more mistakes, slower reactions, attention lapses, and higher sleepiness. ADHD is not just a focus problem. It may also be a wakefulness problem.
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It wasn't until many, many, years later that someone helped point out to me how hollow her apologies actually were.
She was just really good at performing accountability, and then waiting long enough (or gaslighting me) for me not to notice her lack of follow-through.
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Real, TRUE apologies also include follow-through to reduce or prevent harm. If there is no follow-through, it's not a true apology.
I used to give my abuser PRAISE for apologizing. "So many parents don't even apologize at all! I'm really fortunate she does."
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One abuse and manipulation topic I don't see talked about very much is about the abusers that DO make good apologies.
It looks just like a real apology; they take accountability for that they did, name the harm, and say they won't do it again. But...
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