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Narcissistic abuse & trauma survivors are often diagnosed with chronic pain & autoimmune disorders because long-term exposure to cortisol & adrenaline (fight or flight chemicals) cause inflammation in our bodies. Inflammation causes pain, or worse, it causes our immune system to attack itself because it thinks the inflammation is caused by a disease it needs to eradicate.

A narcissist will burn the relationship to the ground. They'll blame you for how you react to their toxic behavior, then have the audacity to claim “we both made mistakes.”

Female Narcissists do not have the ability to self reflect. They can not see anything wrong in what they do, they only see fault in your reaction. They believe every argument is caused by you, because to them there was no problem with their actions or behaviors, until you reacted to them. They 100% believe you are the problem, and they are the victim.

A narcissist will burn the relationship to the ground. They'll blame you for how you react to their toxic behavior, then have the audacity to claim “we both made mistakes.”

When that ego wears off someday I hope you realize the way you handled shit was emotionally immature, spiritually unaware, narcissistic and lowkey evil af.

YOU FORCED ME TO STUDY NARCISSISM.NOW ENJOY MY EDUCATED ASS.

Every narcissist I have ever come across had the same thing in common. They all claimed to hate drama. And they were all personally responsible for every single dramatic situation that somehow kept following them everywhere they went.

Narcissists don’t want what’s best for their children. They want what’s convenient for themselves.

A NARCISSIST WILL MAKE YOU THINK YOU’RE OVERREACTING WHEN YOU’RE ACTUALLY HAVING A NORMAL REACTION TO AN ABNORMAL AMOUNT OF BULLSHIT

Narcissists, they rape your soul every single day. They’re monsters in human flesh. And yeah, a lot of people say, oh, it’s their trauma when they’re kids that made them like that. We all have trauma when we were kids. I never did anything like that to people.

NEVER TRY AND DEFEND YOURSELF AGAINST A NARCISSIST. THEY ALREADY KNOW YOU’RE RIGHT, THEY JUST WANT YOU TO GO CRAZY TRYING TO PROVE IT.

A NARCISSIST will try to convince you that your reactions are the problem, when in reality, without THEIR actions, there would be NO reactions.

“go call your man” If you tell me to call my man, you better be confident in that decision. That man will burn down the whole world for me, he dont care who you are.

Narcissists cheat, lie and hurt without remorse, but karma always finds them. Trust me

A Narcissist will try to convince you that you are difficult. Yet the moment they are gone, life becomes incredibly peaceful without even trying.

What Female Narcissist Mean When She Says “He’s Crazy” financially abused him, consistently cheated on him, blamed him for all the problems I caused, exhausted him mentally, emotionally and physically, made him sick, was cruel and abusive, talked down to him, gaslight him and made him feel crazy, isolated him from friends and family, was controlling, selfish and self absorbed, and when he had nothing left to give…I abandoned him in the most cruel way possible.

NARCISSISTS ARE NOT HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES. They blame everyone else for their unhappiness and then they use their unhappiness to justify their disloyalty, unfaithfulness, and overall bad behaviors and abuse. They put unrealistic and impossible expectations on you. And no matter what you do it will never be enough, they will never be satisfied. And you always end up the one to blame. -

You Are Not Safe in Relationship With a Narcissist. Narcissists are high risk takers, they cheat, lie, drive recklessly, prone to have drug and alcohol addictions and engage in whatever else gets them that temporary high and takes away their feelings of emptiness. Narcissists tend to not learn from their mistakes and they lack pattern recognition. This leads them to make the same mistakes over and over again. There is no security with a narcissist. You don’t feel safe in relationship with a narcissist because in so many ways you are not safe.