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1. Your mental health matters.
2. Choose yourself first.
3. Never stay because of what people will say.
4. Education is important.
5. Always choose your children.
6. You can't change a man who doesn't want to change.
7. Once he starts abusing and beating you, leave.
8. Cheating and abuse affect the whole family, especially the kids.
9. Protect your peace.
10. Put yourself first.
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I DONโT WALK AWAY TO TEACH PEOPLE A LESSON. I WALK AWAY BECAUSE I LEARNT MINE. ๐ฅโผ๏ธ
Thereโs a version of walking away thatโs performative. Itโs calculated. Itโs done with one eye looking back, hoping they notice, hoping they chase, hoping the silence becomes loud enough to make them feel something. Thatโs not healing. Thatโs manipulation dressed in self-respect.
But then thereโs the other kind.
The kind where you finally stop negotiating with whatโs already been made clear. Where youโre not punishing them, youโre protecting yourself. Where the exit isnโt a statement, itโs a conclusion. Youโve processed the evidence, received the verdict and decided to stop appealing a case that was never going to rule in your favour.
Thatโs the walk I know.
Iโve been the person who stayed too long. Gave too many second chances that were really just first chances dressed up in familiar clothes. Mistook consistency for loyalty and availability for love. I sat in rooms where I was tolerated, not treasured and I told myself the discomfort was growth.
It wasnโt growth. It was erasure.
So when I walk away now, itโs not because I want you to miss me. Itโs because I finally stopped missing a version of you that probably never existed. You didnโt lose a lesson. I found one. And unlike most lessons in life, this one cost enough that I refuse to repeat the course.
Walking away quietly is not weakness. Itโs the loudest thing a self-aware person can do.
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I really married my answered prayer. โค๏ธ
A man to whom my dreams matter. A man who is wholeheartedly involved in my life. A man who doesnโt just speak, but backs his words with actions.
A man who guides me, sees me, hears me, and truly listens to me.
I truly married my own person, and I thank God for him every day. ๐ฅนโค๏ธ
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@oboz362 @oku_yungx I dey follow my father foot step๐๐
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