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It's hard to admit, but i'm burned out. i feel drained, unmotivated, and tired in ways that sleep can't fix. i'm trying, but everything feels heavier than it should

I want a relationship where I’m not triggered all the time. Someone who calms me.

i hope attachment never finds me again, i’m very bad at letting go — i can’t do this again.

A friend of mine makes and sells oil perfumes, so I decided to support her by buying two different fragrances. When the first bottle finished, I could not bring myself to throw it away. The same thing happened with the second bottle. The bottles were still neat, strong, and reusable. Then I thought, “Why can’t she reuse these bottles to package new perfumes?” The only thing she needed to change was the label because the old one had faded. So I reached out to her and told her I wanted to return the empty bottles. She was genuinely shocked. She said nobody had ever returned perfume bottles to her before, and she had never even considered reusing them. I had to explain my thought process to her. Eventually, she accepted the idea, collected the bottles, cleaned them properly, and repackaged new fragrances in them. Just like that, those bottles avoided ending up in a landfill. Now imagine if more people started doing this with all the glass perfume bottles we use, both local and international brands. It may seem small, but actions like this can reduce waste and environmental pollution over time. If you are a LOCAL PERFUME PRODUCER, maybe it is time to start encouraging CUSTOMERS to return their empty bottles for REUSE. Day 60/365

i think long-term stress changes people quietly. you become less expressive, less excited, more tired, more detached, until one day you barely recognize the version of yourself that existed before survival mode.

Nothing hurts like giving someone a second chance after they’ve hurt you badly and then they come back and do an even greater damage.

Adult friendships are so funny because you really just lose a friend on a random day after realizing you clearly don’t mean anything to this person, while at one point they meant the world to you. Fortunately, this doesn’t change the price of bread, so good riddance and stuff🤘🏾

I will never accept the propaganda that someone is too busy to text back

"Muna I've never seen you angry" No see am o abeg, cause you no go believe wetin your eye go see. 😩

a new bottle of perfume will always make me happy.

Some family members may not be able to contribute financially to weddings, graduations, funerals, or other gatherings, but they show up with their hands and their hearts. Don’t overlook the uncle who doesn’t give money but ensures the cow is properly prepared..

Want my 30s to be filled with passport stamps, new beginnings, sweet things, and a career I look forward to every morning

One thing about me, ima get mad and say ok😭 cause you don't even wanna hear wtf I REALLY have to say

Yo en el examen tratando de recordar algo que nunca estudié

"You should allow yourself to meet new people on your days off." me on my day off:

Me reading the messages through my notification bar and pretending not to be online

"you're a strong person, you handled everything so bravely" Me when I sit alone.

can't believe i thought i would be a wife by 25, i'm not even a girlfriend what the helly

i’m convinced charging cords only spoil when you’re already going through a lot.

HRs please normalize not holding interviews when you have already decided who is getting the job. Some of the unemployed borrowed money for transport fare