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My girlfriend was not a gym girl when I first started going to the gym, after about a year when my body started transforming, I immediately started getting questions like this from her “babe, what should I eat to make my belly flat?” “Is sit-ups hard?”😄, I started to see workout videos on her phone, to cut the long story short “she is a strong gym girl now” all it took was just me making the decision to start the gym and it automatically motivated her to do the same, if you love your partner, you won’t want to be left behind.

We are constantly told that women are the more empathetic and emotionally evolved gender. But the deepest, darkest glitch in modern dating is that many women secretly possess zero empathy for a man's actual struggles. They beg a man to "open up" and "be vulnerable," but the exact second he actually breaks down, admits he is financially terrified, or cries, she immediately gets the "ick." The attraction instantly dies because she didn't actually want his raw vulnerability; she just wanted the aesthetic of emotional intimacy while he remained an unbreakable superhero.

Rule number ten: We have sex. Often. Even when tired. Even when not in the mood. Physical intimacy is not a reward for good behavior. It is the glue. It is the reset button. It is the reminder that underneath the stress, the schedules, the responsibilities, we are still lovers. The couples who stop having sex stop being married. They just keep living together.

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Brainwashed people get mad when someone is not brainwashed. They love talking about sports, celebrities, the news and TV shows but whenever you bring up a real life topic like vaccines or fluoride they turn into angry robots. This is because they have been programmed to distract themselves with fake things so that they never reach their full potential in life. They’re incapable of thinking for themselves and all of their thoughts come from external entertainment and media. When you tell them that the food is being poisoned they get mad as if they want the food to be poisoned. When you tell them that fluoride is a waste product or aluminium manufacturing they get mad as if they want to drink it. They get subconsciously mad that you can think outside of the box and they can’t. There’s really no reason to try to help these people wake up. The only way they can wake up is by themselves. Trying to wake up a brainwashed person is a waste of time 99% of the time.

I heard a pastor say something that jolted me Every time Jesus speaks to demons, they obey instantly. Zero resistance. But when Jesus speaks to us, thru scripture, His Spirit, conviction …we pause, wrestle, delay. Why are we slower to obey than even the things that hate Him?

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A husband was telling me his wife insecurity and how she kept making little jokes about him leaving her for younger women. He thought she seemed too sensitive, too emotional, too easily upset. At first, he treated it like a character problem in her. Maybe she was jealous. Maybe she was dramatic. Maybe she just needed to be more secure. But as we talked, a different picture emerged. He was correcting her all the time. He criticised how she spent her time. He belittled the books she wanted her to read. He shot down her little bids for fun and connection because they seemed unnecessary -- more coffee dates, more fun little outings, more affection. He thought he was helping her "grow up." But she felt unwanted. What looked like jealousy was, in large part, hurt. What he thought was irrational insecurity was actually her slowly and rationally concluding: “I don’t think my husband actually delights in me.” “I think he mostly notices what is wrong with me.” “I think he’d prefer a different kind of woman.” Her jokes about “the girls at the gym” were not really about the girls at the gym. They were about loneliness and feeling only tolerated rather than treasured. A lot of men make this mistake. They try to reason their wife out of insecurity while starving the marriage of affection, praise, attention, generosity, and fun. Emotional security grows when a wife feels chosen. Wanted. Enjoyed. Pursued. Spoken well of. Put at ease. Less correction. More connection. Often the solution to your problem is simple but hard: - take her out for coffee, - speak warmly to her, - praise what is good in her, - put your phone away, - laugh with her, - make her feel that being with her is not a duty but a delight.

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They do not understand the nature of feminine power. To be fair to them, most men don't either. Feminine power comes from faith and belief. But since feminism convinced women that only masculine power - authority and agency - mattered, they have thrown this gift in the trash and become obsessed with always maintaining control. What they don't get is control is a double-edged sword. Men are granted control by God because men must also take on the burden of leadership and responsibility. In exchange for the ability to make decisions, they must bear the consequences of those decisions. Yet women instinctually hate responsibility and consequences because they are not wired for them emotionally. So now modern women find themselves in the predicament where they want to be cherished (loved unconditionally) by a man, but also demand equal respect. Note I do not mean respect in the sense of deserving dignity, but in terms of having competency and authority acknowledged. This is an impossible and unsustainable request, and you can see that women are finally having to start to grapple with the choice in front of them. If a woman wants unconditional love from a man, she must unconditionally give herself to him. Yes this is a risky, because what if he doesn't lead well or love you like you want? But it is equally risky for a man to choose to lead a woman who refuses to surrender and follow him. That is why you vet before marriage. In the same way that the more burdens a man takes under his authority, the more masculine he becomes; the more a woman submits to her man and relinquishes control over her life, the more feminine energy she embodies. And that feminine energy can move mountains, because men are instinctually wired to serve women who believe in them. Men become the vectors of female manifestation. Good men become better men based on a woman's faith in them and their potential. They show their confidence in him by allowing him to make mistakes, giving him space and grace. But a woman who cannot relax or trust, who nags and demands control will never manifest anything but frustration and anxiety for herself. This is how male and female polarity works. If you are a woman and this triggers you, that's a signal you're very outside your femininity and have a lot of surrendering to do.

Recently at lunch, a guy asked if my wife and I were dating "No, we're married." "How long?" "16 years." His jaw dropped. "Seriously? You guys don't act married." And there it is. The unspoken truth about modern marriage: we've accepted that "married" means dead inside. No affection. No fun. Just two exhausted people managing chaos together. But here's what he actually saw: • My arm around her waist in line • Us laughing about something stupid • Actually looking at each other instead of our phones • Choosing to spend lunch TOGETHER instead of "getting a break" This isn't luck. It's not "good genetics" or "you just found the right one." It's intentional. What we do that most couples don't: - Regular dates (non-negotiable) Even if it's just a lunch during the workday. Time together without kids talking over us. - Physical affection in public. Hold hands. Hug. Kiss. Don't save intimacy for the bedroom—it builds connection everywhere. - Talk about US, not just logistics. We have conversations that aren't about bills, schedules, or what the kids need. - I still flirt with my wife Compliment her. Make her laugh. Tease her. Don't treat her like a business partner. - Protect marriage time from kid time. Our kids are important. Our marriage is THE FOUNDATION. If it crumbles, so does everything else. Here's the hard truth: Your marriage isn't dying because you're "too busy." It's dying because you stopped prioritizing it. Every time you choose Netflix over conversation. Every time you let a month pass without a real date. Every time you treat your wife like a roommate instead of your partner. You're choosing slow death over intentional life. 16 years in, my wife and I still get mistaken for a dating couple. Not because we're special. Because we refuse to let "married" mean "done trying." When's the last time you actually DATED your wife?

Intimacy and regular sex improve your sleep quality dramatically. The deep relaxation and hormone release after orgasm help you fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer. Couples who make time for each other at night often wake up more refreshed than those who don’t."

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Sex is an absolute necessity for men in marriage. But the issue is not just sex itself. It’s how it is given. Men don’t want to beg for it. They want to feel wanted. They want to feel chosen, not like they are forcing it or always asking. In a healthy marriage, both people should desire each other. It should not feel like one person is chasing while the other is avoiding. When that balance is missing, there’s frustration, distance, and even anger with time. So yes, sex is an absolute necessity. But beyond that, men want to feel wanted, respected, and close to their partner. When that is there, things work better. When it is not, the marriage starts to break down. 🤷‍♂️

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