Inyang Inikori@inikoriinyang
“I went to his house one day and met him washing. We had been dating for a few months, so I greeted him, went inside, put on a movie, and ended up falling asleep.
When I woke up, he was already eating. I asked why he didn’t wake me, and he said he didn’t want to disturb me.
I went to get a drink so I could join him, but he carried his food away and told me to go cook mine. I thought he was joking, so I chased him playfully, but he stopped and asked what I had done to deserve food when I chose to sleep instead of helping him wash.
I didn’t get angry at first, but his attitude changed. He avoided me for the rest of the visit.
Later, he called and said he had been testing me all along. He listed times I “failed”—not cooking, not washing his clothes, not helping him.
According to him, I wasn’t behaving like a proper woman.
That was when it clicked. I told him I wasn’t there to take over his chores or play house help.
He called me a ‘parrot’,
I knew I was in the wrong relationship. I stopped calling, skipped his invites to his house, and ended it—for my peace.
He sent a text and said I’m not a loyal person and that I hurt him so bad.
What did I do wrong?”
