Danielle LaPorte

“Making memories” is actually not the best objective. It creates perpetual past-referencing so the past looks sweeter. Then we’re always chasing the next memory to manufacture. More presence is a great intention—presence doesn’t even need to be memorable. No pressure. Just real.

Women supporting women = quantum leaps. Women giving other women an unnecessarily hard time = devastating.

5. Frustrating relationship dynamics. You fawn for emotional safety. Say yes when you're a maybe. Fix others to get your needs met. Blessing is the tincture for everything we experience in all forms of relationships.

Letting fear steer. You brace for impact. Use worry as preparation. Stay hypervigilant about what might go wrong. The origin of the fear matters less than how you meet it in real time—with total and utter compassion.

Replaying past pain and guilt. You loop on "if only." You can't move on without forgiveness or closure. Here's the truth: closure doesn't require mutual agreement from the people involved. Closure is an inside job.

Trying to control outcomes (especially in others). You manage people's emotions. Micromanage details. Overplan for what you know is out of your control. The relentless pursuit of control blocks synchronicities from happening.

Striving to be "worthy." You feel like accomplishments or productivity qualify you for belonging. If you rest, it will "all fall apart." Striving to be worthy is exhausting, darling. Harsh self-judgment is a false motivator.

I've asked over 8,000 people this question. Answers are always immediate. Emphatic. We know where it hurts—even if we don't know why, or what to do about it. The best human studies research I've ever done.

"What do you want to let go of?" We surveyed over 8,000 people for the Bless & Release book and workshop! There are very clear patterns and themes. I present you with (drum roll…) THE TOP 5 PATTERNS PEOPLE WANT TO LET GO OF.

Seasonal Rest for All the Busy People—A Sneak Peek Into Our Business Mastermind New episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE podcast is live. LISTEN IN: DANIELLELAPORTE.COM/LISTEN-PODCASTS #lesshustlemorerest #resttobeproductive

8 Signs That You’re Balanced in Relationships New episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE podcast is live. LISTEN IN🎧 DANIELLELAPORTE.COM/LISTEN-PODCASTS

19 Questions for Your Nourishment A micro workshop on how you relate to all the healing areas of your life! New episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE podcast is live. 🎧LISTEN IN DANIELLELAPORTE.COM/LISTEN-PODCASTS

10 Reasons We Isolate––why we pull back from people, places and experiences. What fear-driven isolation does to us, and what heart centered, healthy isolating looks like. New episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE podcast is live. 🎧LISTEN IN DANIELLELAPORTE.COM/LISTEN-PODCASTS

Who am I to teach what I teach? Just me. Let’s get up close and personal. New WITH LOVE, DANIELLE podcast is live. 🎧LISTEN IN DANIELLELAPORTE.COM/LISTEN-PODCASTS #withlovedanielle

Is it from your heart? For the right reasons? In service? Then—and only then... go! xo D . . . #heartcenteredliving

This is the ONLY way that we are going to stay sane… …and that our relationships are going to thrive… …and that we’re going to create realities that we want to live in. New episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE podcast is live. 🎧LISTEN IN: DANIELLELAPORTE.COM/LISTEN-PODCASTS

Denial is like energetic glue. Consciousness is like... sunlight. THAT's how we heal. LOOK AT IT. Speak Lovingly to it. And then whatever it is begins to relax ... and then it transforms ... and maybe it even dissolves and goes bye bye.

Let’s talk about stress, baby. Let’s talk about nerves and mind loops and … relaxation. 9 Ways We Add Stress to Our Lives (and simple solutions) New WITH LOVE, DANIELLE podcast is live. LISTEN IN: daniellelaporte.com/listen-podcast…

“Them.” “Us” All of us. Only one works. #freewill #unityconsciousness #peaceandliberation #liberationandpeace

ARE YOU A FIGHTER? FLIGHTER? FREEZER or FAWNER? Once you’re clear on that, you can see the path to healing. I have some questions to get you there… New episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE out now! 🎧Listen in: DANIELLELAPORTE.COM/LISTEN #withlovedanielle #stresstype