Ayo

All the extra extra shock and moral panic whenever women do something even slightly morally reprehensible exist because you have been conditioned to see us as obligatory saints when we’re not. My feminism recognises women as morally complex human beings capable of good and bad, and socialisation is why the consequences are disproportionately harsher for us. If we were truly morally superior, you would cede leadership positions to us — domestically and professionally — but you won’t because you know it’s all just a mechanism of control. No true equality until we undo this dehumanising construct so men can stop using ‘nature’ as an excuse to do all sorts of evil while punishing women more harshly for the same shit they feel entitled to do. There is nothing special about men that makes their pain a global emergency while ours is treated as an afterthought. Claiming not to be emotional beings but stinking up the place with tears and bullets when they get their feelings hurt, even when they drew first blood? Cry me a fucking river.

So yesterday PCOS was renamed to PMOS. After 11 years and about 22,000 people fighting for it. If you’re one of the women who was told to just lose weight or come back when you want children, the reason it was renamed is going to make a lot of things make sense. Keep reading🧵🩷

As a lady, if you don’t learn to match men’s hypocrisy, you’ll keep throwing other women under the bus just to prove you’re unbiased. If a woman is bold enough to do what men have always gotten away with, I’ll hail her, whether I’d do the same/not. Fuck sanctimonious, Go girl!

If it’s not victim blaming, it’s slut shaming or mocking women for having trauma related to penetration, all from “feminists.” Oh ok, cause that’s totally normal and befitting of the ideology you claim to align with.

They kinda bank on the silence of women, I’m afraid. Sometimes a crash out is necessary.

Any man who constantly degrades, slut shames, or insults women who are other people’s wives and daughters unprovoked on social media can NEVER be a good husband or father.

You’re comparing piss, which stinks and is literally a biohazard, to breastmilk, which is food and a source of survival? You must be mad.

Victim: I was abused. Feminists: that’s what you get for dating a yahoo boy, what did you expect? You were flaunting your money, shebi you were spoiled. Sorry sha, but you could have done better. Nothing on the abuser, nothing on the fraudster 🫩 And that’s how harm is perpetrated you have successfully shifted the conversation to the victim’s shortcomings instead of the abuser and that’s how abusers get away with abuse. You are causing harm and you are enabling abuse.

Hi everyone, We’ve seen and taken seriously the reports regarding incidents that occurred at Ilé Ijó last night. First and foremost, we want to sincerely apologise to everyone affected. Creating a space where people feel safe, respected, and able to enjoy themselves freely has always been at the heart of Ilé Ijó and we are deeply sorry that this was not the experience some of our patrons had. Regarding the reports of harassment, we have personally reached out to and spoken with those who came forward and we continue to support them while addressing the matter appropriately. Following our internal review the security team involved at last night’s event will no longer be working with Ilé Ijó. We want to be clear: Ilé Ijó will never tolerate harassment, misconduct or any behaviour that compromises the safety and wellbeing of our community. We are committed to holding individuals accountable and ensuring this space remains one built on care and respect for everyone who attends. Thank you to everyone who spoke up and trusted us enough to share your experiences. We take your concerns seriously and we remain committed to keeping Ilé Ijó a safe space for our community.

This is trope I want to prevent, women with money can be severely abused too. It’s not financial dependence that makes women to be abused. There are women that submit their salaries to their abuser. Abuse is multidimensional, don’t for once believe that money will save you.

NAWWW HOLD AWNNNN😍

“I am wired like a man, if you want to be with a woman i get it baby” “You have to release yourself for me to love you right” Tumi is not just a gaslighter Na she get the gas company 😭😭

ilebaye was not "disciplined" by her father, she assaulted. she could barley open her eyes on live, crying and begging for help. but you're talking about "family matters, other side to the story, even if she's in her 20s she's still a child under her father's roof" yall are evil.

Nigerians think you deserve to be abused because the abuser spent on you.

That babe came on the internet, humiliated Angel and called her all sorts, lied! Called the police on her over a fucking lie, had her mum arrested and you people still do not see how abusive this is? Chai, truly wonder what you people are doing.

she literally rhymed Santa Monica with Ken Saro-Wiwa. how many poets can measure up to that?

He doesn't beat women but he beats his younger sisters with the excuse of discipline. Run!!!

And no matter the connection he has, he must do jail. He was on live smashing the face of his daughter, how many more powerful people have to get away with abuse?

The face of a domestic abuser !!!

He must not have a nice day, a nice week a nice month. He is the representation of what we complain about. He has to be a scapegoat. Please if you know his name reach out.