Shaya Bell

@Neekstylez1 @BrianAtlas I'd probably be out in that case, especially if we haven't moved in together or had any kids. My logic of considering staying with her is that she has a conscience of telling the truth when doing fuckery. To go a whole year without saying shit kinda negates that.

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas What if she initially lied then a year later the truth comes out ?

BRUTAL RED PILL...

@SpaceNomad68858 @etodiike @BrianAtlas He chose not to be with her anymore...which is fine too

@FishofDiamonds @etodiike @BrianAtlas He didn't punish her, he simply saved himself and helped a lot of young men realize that a lot of Women do this anyway without telling anyone.

@DProfessor699 @Kcmo_yo @BrianAtlas Not necessarily. Personally, I'm skeptical about LTRs in general. I'm just saying this because most dudes have been in the same situation and just never knew it.

@FishofDiamonds @Kcmo_yo @BrianAtlas And this is okey with you??

@VforVeritas @BrianAtlas I never said this was my standard. I'm just posing the hypothetical with elements of modern dating. Thanks for the help though

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas You know what will always be foreign to you with your mentality, a successful long term marriage. Get better standards.

@etodiike @BrianAtlas If it was subconscious shit test, then yeah that would be the case. But there's a difference between being cool with it and punishing her but not dissolving the relationship. If you do decide to stay, you'd definitely need to do the latter.

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas That was a shit test that she didn't even know she was giving at that point. If he acted cool with it, that old fwb will not be "old" for too long anymore

@wertn0g @BrianAtlas I'm not saying make it easy for her. Checkout and fallback until she regains your trust so she'll think twice before doing something again. My point is whatever compelled her to tell you in the first place is rare, because most women won't unless they think you already know.

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas "Oh wow, he's okay with it? Maybe he'll be okay with it later too." C'mon bud, she wouldn't have stopped.

@Kcmo_yo @BrianAtlas I'm not dating a woman for "months" without sleeping with her. Last time I did that, I was a virgin in high school. If you meet a girl and y'all are in the early talking stage, there's a chance she's fucking someone you don't know about and she'll stop when she's attached to you.

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas So you date for months, she won't fuck you but she'll fuck a fling and that just isn't an issue for you? Have some self respect dude.

@VforVeritas @BrianAtlas I'm not disagreeing with you. Personally, I'm skeptical about most LTR's. My point is if I ever decided to be in another one, this behavior wouldn't be foreign to me.

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas Because other woman engage in this major red flag, doesn’t mean it’s any less of a red flag. This is not marriage level behavior and because you say most woman do this helps explain why most marriages fail.

@whodafuqdisssss @GeneralSw1ft @BrianAtlas Like I said, personally I'd do ever thing I could to mitigate being in a situation like this if I did decide to do LTRs again. I'm just saying a lot of men are in this situation and will never know it

@FishofDiamonds @GeneralSw1ft @BrianAtlas I hear you. I went through a period of my life where I accepted this behavior too. It just seems logical. Sure, we're all dating, lots of sex, this and that. No big deal right? I'm secure. But it's not like that for them. They get ran through and do not recover like we do.

@365footy247 @BrianAtlas A cuck is someone who willing let another man fuck his woman. They weren't exclusive in this situation and he had no idea until she told him..The same you have no idea this has ever happened to you

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas No, a lot of women don’t do this. You’re a cuck chair hype man.

@whodafuqdisssss @BrianAtlas Generally, the way women get over an attachment is getting attached to someone new..which again, is what I believe happened here. If you've ever initiated a breakup, you'll see this play out. Your ex will be attached to you until she finaly get an orgasm from another guy lol

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas It can happen to men and work out. I cannot happen to women and work out. I am not saying this to uphold some artificial double standard. Women are biologically not capable of it. They experience sex in a different way. Men and women are not the same.

@whodafuqdisssss @GeneralSw1ft @BrianAtlas Don't get me wrong...I'd definitely have my suspicions and I'd probably mentally checkout to a certain extent, but part of me would respect her honesty because most women wouldn't have the integrity to tell you unless they think you already know.

@FishofDiamonds @GeneralSw1ft @BrianAtlas It's not going to work man. If you think this worked for you at some point you just never found out what was really going on.

@whodafuqdisssss @BrianAtlas I suspect that when she met her boyfriend, she was indifferent about him..but later grown attached to him through rapport and sex. This happens all the time

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas As men, if we project our own actions and conscience on this situation we realize we could have an FWB, regret it and stay faithful to a woman we loved and never do it again. Women are not capable of that. If a woman has ever had an FWB, there is no future with her. Full stop.

@jeffer1245x @BrianAtlas This could definitely be true. I suspect that she may have been indifferent about her boyfriend when they first met but later developed an attachment for him through rapport and sex. If that was the case, then I'd say he wouldn't have to worry much about the old FWB

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas She is settling for the guy and marriage may not last because she will get bored. She still has the hots for the FWB, who is not marriageable material.

@thogar1508 @BrianAtlas The conscience of guilt so they won't do fuck shit while y'all are exclusive. What this girl did was fucked up, but as I stated, a lot women do this and just don't care to tell you. Those are the same women that will cheat when y'all are exclusive and be apathetic to not tell you

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas No conscience while taking dick??

@rurr_rain @BrianAtlas This is the obvious prescription. I'm just posing the hypothetical if I was ever in this situation myself. A lot of these dudes are raging about this but fail to realize they may have unknowingly been in this situation themselves in the past. This girl just told him the truth

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas Agreed, I’d expect most women moving like this nowadays, maybe it would be wise to look for women of different culture backgrounds, Godspeed.

@GeneralSw1ft @BrianAtlas If I did stay, I would've definitely not made it easy for her...just so in the case she was truly sincere, she'd know not ever do any type of shit like that again

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas If he acted cool with it then she would assume he doesn’t care that much about her and it’s fine to keep doing it. She was trying to sleep around and get treated like a queen at the same time. She’s a slut and a psycho.

@hoontaleez @BrianAtlas Yeah! This is the only part that got me. Most women don't make you wait if they have genuine attraction for you. The fact that she did means she might not have it or worse, have feelings for the FWB.

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas I'd agree if she didn't make him wait, but if I'm dating a girl whose putting that rule in place, it sends the signal that we're exclusive until we figure things out. If I'm not good with that, I'd call it out so I'd expect her to do the same.

@In2sportz7 @KOFIOnPC @BrianAtlas After two dates, yes..I believe most would know if they were highly interested in you and drop other males in there roster. Personally, I wouldn't be in this situation because I go exclusive fast, but in his case, I have mixed feelings about it

@FishofDiamonds @KOFIOnPC @BrianAtlas Most women don’t bang other dudes if there interested and going on dates with you bro

@rurr_rain @BrianAtlas I'm not disagreeing with you. I'm skeptical about LTRs in general, but if I was looking for another, with dating apps, the abundance of attention, and hyper sexual culture..realistically I'd expect a lot of women to be moving like this.

@FishofDiamonds @BrianAtlas Honesty in this case would fall in the category of “too little, too late”, her past matters and “a lot of women do this anyway” is a terrible mentality to enter a long term relationship