A man asking ‘what do you bring to the table?’ should set off alarm bells. It tells you that he doesn’t trust his own judgement, he’s easily influenced and he lacks the ability to discern whether or not the people around him are good or bad. He’s not ready for a relationship.
A woman who truly loves you will LOVE YOU NO MATTER what you do or how many times you do it.
....and that woman is your MOTHER because it sure ain’t me. TF 😑