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A few years ago, I started talking to a guy on a matrimony site. We spoke for about 2-3 months and everything seemed to be going well. We liked each other and even introduced our families. We were ready to take the next step and get married.
Then, out of nowhere, he stopped talking to me. It was a complete shock. After about a week, I found out that he had gotten engaged to someone else. I couldn't understand why he would do this after everything seemed so positive between us.
A few days later, I received a text from his mother, apologizing for the situation. She explained that they wanted a girl from their nearby city, and since I was from a different place, they decided to go with someone else. It was a heartbreak for me, but I had to come to terms with it.
Recently, I came to know that he died by suicide. It was a devastating revelation. He wasn't happy in his life, and it seems he wasn't happy with his marriage either. I remembered when he had messaged me after his wedding, trying to convey that he was forced into this marriage and that he wanted to marry me. At that time, I had dismissed it as a lie or an attempt to make me feel guilty.
Marriage is a deeply personal decision, and it should never be forced upon anyone. Parents should listen to their children's opinions and desires. It is their life, after all. One wrong decision can have a profound impact on so many lives. I can't even begin to imagine the pain his parents and his wife had to go through. It is a tragic reminder of the importance of communication, understanding, and allowing individuals to make their own choices in life.
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