
Berty Thomas
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Berty Thomas
@BertyThomas
Hobbyist programmer. TEDx speaker. Techie interested in Law. Studying Cyber Law (NLSIU). Notable work: Under45 Vaccination alerts (acquired by @healthifyme)






Cliché and such, but who cares! #notapaidtweet #Idontdothat







James Sexton said something recently that hit me hard and it’s something I’ve been saying for years. If you need exams, training, fees, and a license before driving a car… If you need approvals, permits, and compliance before starting a business… Why is marriage the most legally binding, financially risky, emotionally life-altering contract most people will ever sign something you can walk into with zero education? The government wants to be involved in every aspect of your divorce. They want to approve when you separate. They want to decide when you part ways. They want to control maintenance, custody, visitation, property, everything. But when you’re entering the contract? Silence. No warnings. No disclosures. No education. If the judiciary needs to approve your exit, maybe it should also approve your entry, after ensuring you understand the legal consequences of the fallout. Your duties. Your obligations. Your liabilities. But let’s be honest the government will never do this. Because once both people truly understand the law… Once both people know the financial exposure, the legal leverage, the downside risk… A lot of men won’t marry. And that’s not because marriage is “bad” socially, it’s because, legally, the structure is phenomenal for women and brutally onerous for men. Women, too, had stopped wanting marriage for societal reasons, until they realised the legal system gives them enormous benefits. Men, meanwhile, have no idea what they’re signing up for. And that’s exactly why so many men still walk blindly into it. Every month, men come to me for a pre-marital consultation. We go through their specific worst-case scenarios. We discuss what happens if things go wrong. We map out the legal and financial reality. And a shocking number of them, after hearing the truth cancel their marriages. Not because they hate women. Not because they fear commitment. But because they finally understand the contract. Education changes everything. And that’s precisely why nobody wants you to be educated before you sign.








Today I saw a guy in the mall, and he legit purchased Hot Wheels worth 5k rupees from Hamleys; Either he is rich or dumb, nothing else in between.


















