University nah funny place cos you fit just casually come across the most attractive person you’ll ever see in your life on your way to a random 8am class and might not see the person again till you graduate.
It’s very easy to slip into the “happy wife/girlfriend, happy life” mode and just keep going with whatever your woman wants just so there’s peace but that will eventually be the reason you resent her. What you want also matters a lot and you deserve a woman who understands that.