missybee

The most ruthless truth you need to face today is that you are rapidly aging out of the window where people will tolerate your lack of emotional intelligence just because you're young, attractive, or "figuring it out." In your early twenties, people will coddle your poor communication, your silent treatments, and your habit of pulling away when things get hard. They excuse it as you being "mysterious" or just going through a phase. ​But the older you get, that exact same behavior stops being quirky and starts making you a massive liability. High-value people, whether that’s romantic partners, good friends, or mentors, do not have the time or the desire to decipher your moods, chase you when you ghost, or teach you basic accountability. They won't fight with you or try to "fix" you; they will just quietly distance themselves. You aren't "outgrowing" everyone; people are just no longer willing to grade your immaturity on a curve.

i say this all the time lol anyone can read info and remember it take a test etc. most people are nottttt intelligent/capable of introspective thought

Life after accepting no one owes me anything and I shouldn’t expect anything from anyone even family

Adult friendships honestly require GRACE. People are actually very busy. People are HEALING. People are GROWING. People are taking time for SELF CARE just like you. Less communication isn't less love. Check in and don't check out.

sometimes you have to understand the world will probably never be ready for you but you still need to live your life anyway.

i’m screaming at kenya obviously rage baiting tf out of nene and nene fell right into the trap😩 #RHOA nene saying “this ain’t phaedra” when phaedra right beside her was CRAZY tho and phaedra sitting there silent wtf😭

I have so many thoughts a day and i only share abt 2% of it

Anxiety is so funny cause like literally nb gaf but u like

There’s actually so many people that have the spirit of a loser. I would hate to be them. I actually feel sorry for them. I’m very grateful I’ve never been a loser in the visceral, spiritual or metaphysical in any of my lifetimes.

People don’t like to feel poor and public transportation has been framed as poor in America.

mfs haven’t seen duality like this & it makes them act so weird because for some reason they need to pin me down 

@annasbayou please 😭😭😭😭😭

this is actually a real life barbie doll

Cynthia and Leon lowkey being the hottest couple of the 90s. #RHOA

Being judged by people I never want to be like.... I must be doing something right

This video was so funny because she was licking her fingers slinging food everywhere legs wide open like she the classy one here

THAT GIRL AND HER DAMN IPAD