The Missing Self

Women’s desires drive men’s achievements.

If you’re complaining about your life: You’re either satisfied and scared to admit it, or you’re ignoring opportunities to change because your attention is pre-occupied with what you can’t change.

Imagine the worst person you know. Imagine what the world would have to look like for their actions to be justified. That’s the world they think they live in.

Oh yeah, and Merry Christmas everyone! Haha

Overcoming obstacles to pursue someone is seductive because it communicates grit, and so it isn’t hard to imagine why sex positivism (a concept that has reduced social obstacles to sexual expression) has coincided with heightened interest in higher-risk sexual taboos.

Just got asked by our marriage counselor if I ever get jealous and I felt like an alien denying I ever had. I know it seems impossible but Trust really can replace jealousy entirely if you work at it.

No one can convince you of their value better than their absence can.

Your thoughts may speak your language, but they never mean what they say.

True love is built from the pieces of your broken heart.

Every job pays you in three ways, Experience, Relationships, and Money. Experience improves skill Relationships improves visibility Money improves resources Any job you take should have at least A lot of 1 thing A fair amount of 2 things Or a little of all three.

Boredom is blindness.

Get offended by a compliment is just an attempt to manipulate people into babysitting your insecurities.

We love and hate the people that change us the most, but love alone is reserved for those we give permission to do so.

Trust your intuition when making decisions about things you know about or have done before Don’t trust your intuition about things you know nothing about or have never done before

If life gives you lemons and you make lemonade because that’s all you know how to make with lemons, did YOU CHOOSE to make lemonade, or did life?

The only reason we push boulders up mountains is to watch them roll down without us.

Self-love is not about bath bombs, mimosas, and massages. It’s doing the things that you said you were going to do…so that you can trust yourself again. Self-Love is what you feel when the things you do everyday unconsciously lead you to exactly where you want to be.

You don’t have to be an activist to be a good person.

I want to thank the haters, for protecting me from my own bad ideas.

(masculine) Men have simple needs and complicated wants. (feminine) Women have complicated needs and simple wants.