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warmth of your gaze Katılım Ağustos 2020
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Nikola Tieko
Nikola Tieko@NikolaTieko·
bayangin lagi belajar bahasa Inggris. Udah hafal beberapa tenses, bisa bikin kalimat sederhana, terus langsung ngerasa, “wah, gue udah jago nih.” Terus malah jadi “polisi grammar”, dikit-dikit ngoreksi orang lain 😅 ini klise banget. nah, ada konsep menarik dari Martin A. Schwartz yang namanya productive stupidity. ini justru kebalikan dari rasa “udah jago” tadi. dia bilang, dalam proses belajar yang beneran dalam, ngerasa “bodoh” itu bukan tanda gagal, justru tanda kamu lagi maju. dia ngebagi jadi dua. pertama, relative stupidity. ini yang biasa kita rasain di sekolah, ngerasa bodoh karena orang lain udah paham, kita belum. solusinya jelas: belajar lebih banyak. kedua, productive stupidity. ini beda level. kamu ngerasa bodoh bukan karena kurang belajar, tapi karena kamu lagi masuk ke hal yang emang belum kamu kuasai sama sekali, bahkan kadang belum banyak orang ngerti juga. Schwartz cerita, waktu dia mulai PhD, awalnya ngerasa pintar banget. tapi pas masuk lab, tiap hari malah ngerasa bodoh. And that's okay, karena dia lagi bener-bener masuk ke hal baru, bukan sekadar ngulang yang udah ada. sekarang hubungin ke Dunning-Kruger effect. ini teori yang bilang orang yang masih pemula justru paling pede, karena belum sadar seberapa banyak yang mereka belum tahu. makin belajar, makin sadar, “anjir, ternyata gue masih jauh banget ya.” Saat belajar English pun juga sama. awal-awal, baru bisa dikit langsung ngerasa udah jago. tapi pas mulai nonton tanpa subtitle, ngobrol sama native, baca konten asli, tiba-tiba malah ngerasa bodoh lagi. “kok mereka ngomongnya beda banget ya?” “ini idiom apaan sih?” nah, ini justru fase yang bagus. artinya kamu lagi naik level. intinya simpel. kalau kamu nggak pernah ngerasa bodoh, kemungkinan kamu cuma muter di level yang itu-itu aja. tapi kalau kamu mulai sering bingung, sering ngerasa “kok gue nggak ngerti ya”, itu tanda kamu lagi berkembang. jadi lain kali ngerasa stuck atau bego pas belajar English, jangan langsung down. itu bukan kesalahan, itu tanda bahwa kamu lagi masuk ke level yang lebih tinggi. dan di situ biasanya progress beneran mulai terlihat 👍
Curious Minds@CuriousMindsHub

The importance of stupidity in scientific research:

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WORK
WORK@worksfess·
work! punten, sekedar mengingatkan kalian sebelum kayak sekarang pun dulunya pernah jadi jobseeker kan 🙏
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ditsky
ditsky@fagaraga777·
Lagi suka bgt sama kalimat ini, "Allah itu lebih besar dari segala kekhawatiran kita." 🥹🤍
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Man Blue@MancityAfrica1·
@DailyLoud I found this😩 This gender 😅
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Man Blue
Man Blue@MancityAfrica1·
@DailyLoud This brother was right all along 😭
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Daily Loud@DailyLoud·
Man went through his girlfriend of five years' phone and found out she was texting 22 different guys every day while living with him x.com/LASHYBILLS/sta…
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🫧@moonblvrd·
Sedih sekali teman-teman gimana yah, life’s getting weirder and weirder…. Huft…………
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Dear Son.
Dear Son.@DearS_o_n·
WHAT THE F*CK ARE YOU AFRAID OF - Death : We’re all gonna die. - Bankruptcy : You can make it all back. - Shame : Everyone will forget in a week. - Rejection : It happens to everyone. - Failure : It’s part of the path. - Judgment : They’ll judge anyway. - Losing people : Not all are meant to stay. - Making mistakes : You’ll survive them. - Taking risks : Regret hurts more. Live every day like it's your last day.
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✒️@Literariium·
— Haruki Murakami
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vyooo@vyowiz_·
Selalu suka sama kalimat ini: "Maafkanlah dirimu karena dulu kamu belum tahu sesuatu, yang ternyata ada hal yang cuma bisa diajarkan oleh waktu." Don’t be too hard on yourself. Life is a process.
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Nzioka Muli
Nzioka Muli@nziokamul1·
Every version of you was necessary. Even the ones you are ashamed of.
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𝝑𝝔@byamarachi·
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Sara
Sara@piousdeenn·
Did you know the Prophetﷺ taught a way to calm your mind from overthinking?
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shipz ✧@heyshipz·
Real talk.
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Justin Skycak@justinskycak·
The most dangerous form of laziness is performative productivity. Notes, tabs, highlights, summaries, plans. A whole pile of activity arranged to avoid direct contact with the work.
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🍂@Lovandfear·
𝘚𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘢𝘴𝘬𝘦𝘥 𝘮𝘦, “𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘴𝘦? 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯’𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦, 𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯’𝘵 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦?” 𝘐 𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘥, “𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨.”
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Dear Son.
Dear Son.@DearS_o_n·
Be rich. But never talk about money. Be fit. But never talk about working out. Be sharp. But never mention books. You're a man. Never let excitement make you announce things prematurely. Stay low-key and move silently. you'll never regret it.
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rumi ✰
rumi ✰@memorosie·
guys... please, stay alive for the books you haven't read, the anime you haven't finished, and the stray cats you haven't petted yet. stay alive for the smell of rain, your morning coffee, the songs that will become ur new favorites, and the versions of urself you haven't met yet
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