Delulu

please date sweet men. please date men who respect you in anger. please date men who are soft spoken. please date men who are patient with you. please date men who respect their own bodies. please date men that are kind to your soul. please date men who have self-control

bruh when i started dating him i was so happy now i have more scars then i ever had in my life after we broke up

The reason why I don’t go back to an Ex is because I don’t know how to pretend 😭😭

Can we bring back men who actually make it clear? The kind who proudly say “be my girlfriend,” who give reassurance without being asked, who believe in loyalty, effort, promise rings, real dates, and genuine commitment. Bring that era back for the ladies. 😢 🤍

a man isn’t a man until he’s capable of regulating his emotions in the presence of a woman feeling hers.

I’ll build with you but I’m not fixing you

The older i get the more i realize a lot of women aren’t hard to love… They just tired of feeling unseen, unchosen, and emotionally unsafe with people they gave genuine parts of themselves to.

I only wanted love after my first heartbreak. But somewhere between trying to heal and trying not to get hurt again, I became the kind of person I never wanted to be. I tried to love better, but some wounds make you forget how to give love and how to receive it too.

Some people don’t stay because they love you. They stay because starting over with someone new sounds more exhausting than hurting you quietly

he doesnt miss me, he misses the attention

I don’t want you back but I miss our life together… my brain still struggles to understand what happened to us if it use to be us against the world…

A lotta pain could’ve been avoided if I listened to myself earlier.

loving someone just because of convenience is rather unfair. for all involved.

Don’t tell me u like me you don’t do anything romantic and you always angry get ya miserable ass out my face !

sorry, not sorry; but i’m over my toxic and bare minimum stage. i like dates, i like gifts, i like reassurance, i like feeling secure, i like surprises, and i like kind gestures. i simply just like being softly handled.

Get you a MAN that love you enough to care about how his actions gone effect your feelings and stop settling for these grown ass BOYS that think you supposed to love them thru all the bs they taking you thru. A real MAN knows his woman happiness is key to a happy relationship

Peak realization after a breakup will have you feeling like a fool because of the things you did and things you overlooked.

🍵 A btch or ngga bet not play both sides with me. On my soul you don't have to spare me, Nomatter what our bond is . Go with yo move and make sure it's your best cause ain't no coming back nomatter what the situation is friendships,relationships, family and etc ts dead 👌🏾 🍵

You shouldn't have to convince someone to choose you. You shouldn't lie awake overthinking texts, decoding silences, begging the universe for a sign that they care. If someone wants you in their life - really wants you - they'll show up. Not with excuses. Not with mixed signals. But with clarity, effort, and presence. Love isn't supposed to feel like a guessing game. And if you're constantly wondering where you stand, then you already have your answer. Stop breaking your own heart trying to fix someone else's confusion. I know you want to believe they just need time, that maybe if you hold on a little longer, they'll finally see what's right in front of them. But real love doesn't keep you in limbo. It doesn't vanish when things get hard. It doesn't make you feel like you're too much to handle. The hard truth? If someone keeps making you feel uncertain, it's because they're not sure about you and that should never be okay. You're allowed to stop waiting for clarity from someone who only gives you chaos. You're allowed to walk away from the person you love when that love is slowly killing the love you have for yourself. It will hurt, yes. But staying will hurt more. Because the kind of love that's right for you? You won't have to chase it. You won't have to earn it. It'll meet you where you are, take your hand, and stay without making you feel like you have to beg to be kept.

One day you might meet a man who tells you about his ex, how she cheated, how she broke him, and how he can’t trust women anymore. He’ll seem soft, honest, even hurt, and you’ll feel the urge to prove you’re not like her. But be careful—sometimes that story isn’t healing, it’s unresolved pain. And instead of processing it, he may end up projecting it onto you.