Barbie 🩷

Masters degree in hand, PhD on track, married, bigger home, stable emotionally, baby number 1 planning for the next one, jalo jalo🥺

She is in the Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt stage of Erik Erikson, where children begin to develop independence by copying what they observe. She understands that she needs to bathe, but she hasn’t yet learned the correct way to do it. At this stage, children either build confidence in their abilities or begin to doubt themselves, depending on the support they receive.

Got to my apartment, sat down, lit some incense and asked the people I can’t see with my eyes to help me do/be better The things I witnessed today require me to be a big girl and I’m going to do just that

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If everything embarrasses me anyway. Then might as well just do what I want

give me a tote bag so ridiculously large that when i’m looking for something and say “one second,” i climb inside it and you just hear echoes and stairs like it’s an apartment building in there.

Maybe the elephant likes being in the room

Also going to Ayoba for meaningful conversation is nuts

Do you realize how hilarious he is for hiding a white grandpa in the cut until he really needed him? This nigga is generational. This is funnier than any skit he’s made. Lmao

These fuel price increases should make African countries wake up. There’s absolutely no reason for us to be getting oil through the strait of Hormuz when Nigeria, Angola, Gabon et al have sufficient reserves.

@JoshSbren We shouldn't support abusive behaviour just cause someone "came out" to talk about his experience and claims to own up to it. Admitting harm to partner doesn't erase the damage done nor should it shift the focus entirely to "men's struggles" while minimising victims' pain.

going through gracefully

Regardless of peoples extracurricular activities, it’s so so important that people are paid fairly in hospitality ah It’s worrisome because beyond the P230 charge, you’ve got the allegations surrounding his tone and aggression ☹️

@banyezus___ This is the first world relay post I’m seeing kana …. And it’s from you Hopefully they will intensify their efforts

Terrible marketing 🥲

“a little bird told me” interesting because a massive entity told me otherwise

Wrote a substack on negative self talk! It’s to important to learn the difference between intuition vs anxiety and discernment vs self sabotage 🥀 bit.ly/3NFbTgM

i hate when people put you in a box and act surprised when you do something that doesnt align with their idea of you

When tv was tv

nosy as i am, i dont care to know too much about a partner's past. my only non negotiable is that i never want to be in a room where i know less about a situation than anyone else there

“you don’t owe anyone anything” is for, like, trauma survivors learning to care about themselves for the first time or whatever. it’s not for you when you’re an Awful Friend