Aleksandr Miguel 🇺🇸👌🏼

YouTuber Jesse Ridgway and his wife revealed they had an abortion after learning their unborn baby had Down syndrome

I AM A CHILD OF PRO CHOICE PARENTS WHO CHOSE NOT TO HAVE AN ABORTION! My parents were young, I was an "oops" pregnancy, only weeks after my older brother was born. They were set on having an abortion. Soviet Union wasn't a great place to have and raise multiple kids, period. My late grandma, God rest her incredible soul, said over my dead body will you abort that baby! Abortion would not have saved their life Abortion would have ended mine I am forever grateful to my parents "choice" and my grandmother's strong stance on "life"!!! Women who choose abortion need to come to terms with one thing first. You are choosing to end a life, you are killing the dreams, future and incredible abilities of a human being by killing them, voluntarily, to no fault of their own. While I understand there are dire circumstances some including the life of the mother or when horrific acts of rape or incest are involved, this is my life story not a story of death my mother would have had to share for the rest of her life.

This week, my wife and I made the very difficult decision to terminate the pregnancy due to Trisomy 21. The choice was not made lightly. We really appreciate all of the personal stories that you guys shared with us, especially the unconditional support we received from fans with no matter what we decided. I know some of you may be very disappointed to hear this news. We are devastated. This has been extremely traumatic for both of us, especially Ashley. She underwent the procedure earlier this week and is on the mend. Thankfully, everything went smoothly, but emotionally we are drained. Trisomy 21, also known as Down Syndrome, is caused by an extra chromosome. It is caused by an error in cell division, like a glitch. The odds of a baby having it is 1 in 1000. When I first confronted this news, I was shocked but optimistic. If they’re a little slow intellectually, then we’ll make it work. I signed on to be a parent, come what may…but I just didn’t fully understand what Down Syndrome entailed. Once we made it public, it became clear that MOST people don’t know what Down Syndrome entails (and no, it’s not the same as Autism): 50% of babies with DS have heart defects. 75% will have hearing challenges. Over 50% will have vision problems. Impaired immune function, developmental disabilities, learning disabilities, delayed physical development, poor muscle tone, structural issues with face, decreased lifespan, etc…Sadly, the list is long, feel free to look it up…Down Syndome isn’t a “blessing”, it is objectively shitty from a health perspective. I didn’t realize just how rough it is for the child, let alone the family…more often than not, they would be fully dependent on others for the rest of their life. The miscarriage risk is also close to 50%, which made matters worse…they may never see the light of day and it puts Ashley further at risk. We spoke with doctors, friends, family and genetic counselors and learned that up to 90% of women terminate their pregnancy after learning the baby has Trisomy 21. This was WAY higher than I expected, I thought it would be lower given that I hear so many say they kept or would keep the baby. I believe that’s because most terminations happen privately, it feels shameful. A lot of judgment being cast. You never think you’d be in this type of situation until it happens to you and then things change. To all of my fans who have weighed in on this topic who have Autism, Down Syndrome or any other conditions…we appreciate you. You matter a lot and we’re glad you’re here. I commend you and your families for having the strength and courage to push forward. As for us, we made a difficult decision that we believe in the long-run will be beneficial for our family. Thankfully, we had a choice. It will take a little time to move on, but we are excited to try again in the future and hopefully have a better outcome. Love you guys & thank you for understanding. ❤️

California, days since election is still counting ballots. Literally hundreds of thousands of ballots not counted yet. Elections aren't decided and not certified until July 2nd. There is not a single argument anyone can make that proves to me that this is normal.