Late-blooming-student, art & history nut; photography junkie; Outlander, Bridgerton, Blue Jays, NY MetOpera fan. Hard NO to FollowFarmers, the rude & unkind.
All props in the world to Luke and Nicola, they took the 5 (partially blurry) minutes they were given in S4 and made the most of them. They gave us as much sappy, clingy, obsessively in love Polin they could. ๐ซ
Thank you, N & L ๐ฉท๐ฉท๐ฉท
pen and colin hold onto each other so tightly at johnโs funeral like they are afraid their loved one can disappear, thinking that their happiness could be ruined so easily and quickly mustโve scared them to death
they were married around the same time as john and francesca so i think seeing john die so young and quickly rattled them a bit more so they need to hold onto each other a lot harder than necessary.
โyou tell her your own feelings. i know there's nothing more terrifying, but well, once you have met that young lady who is meant for you, who challenges you, sees you as you are, you cannot let any amount of fear stop you from letting your heart speakโ โ colin bridgerton๐ค
Albion, Harry, and Colin fit the Featherington ladies perfectly. The dynamic of soft lover boys together with the strong women of the Featheringtons. Women who draw strength from survival and maintaining their place in high society without the dependable protection of a man.
My Grandparents Were Married For 60 Years.
One Day I Asked My Grandfather:
โWhatโs The Secret To Loving The Same Woman For A Lifetime?โ๏ฟผ
He didnโt laugh.
He didnโt say โcommunication.โ
He didnโt say โdate nights.โ
He looked at my grandmother, who was in the kitchen, and said:
โYou donโt love the same woman.โ
That confused me.
He said, โShe changes every few years. And if you donโt update the way you love her, you lose her.โ
He told me the girl he married at 22 wasnโt the same woman at 30.
Motherhood changed her.
Loss changed her.
Time changed her.๏ฟผ
โAt 40,โ he said, โshe needed respect more than romance.
At 50, she needed partnership more than passion.
At 60, she needed presence more than promises.โ
And every time she changed, he had a choice:
Complain that sheโs โnot like she used to be.โ
Or learn her again.
He said the biggest mistake men make is this:
They fall in love once.
Then stop paying attention.
โLoving a woman for a lifetime,โ he told me,
โis deciding to stay curious about her.โ๏ฟผ
Not assuming you know her.
Not freezing her in the version you met.
He leaned back and said something Iโll never forget:
โIf you stop studying her, someone else eventually will.โ
Sixty years.
Not because it was easy.
Because he kept relearning her.๏ฟผ