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“Every child needs at least one adult who is irrationally crazy about him or her.”
A couple weeks ago I shared this wonderful quote from the developmental psychologist Uri Bronfenbrenner. And it’s true.
Every child needs at least one.
But how lucky are those who can count a whole collection of adults who feel the same way?
One of my favorite things on social media recently has been a series of videos shared to IG by gwynyth depicting not only her own interactions with her newborn son, but those of her father (aka Papa Brian).
Brian’s joyful rendition of Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes is illustrative of the loving bond they share. Check out that eye contact. Those looks of sheer delight.
Frequently we discuss attachment and early relational health in terms of a parent (often a mother) and child. And while this relationship is indeed critical, the luckiest children have webs of secure, trusting relationships with multiple beloved caregivers.
We can each play a role in supporting the optimal development of the young children in our lives by engaging with love, care, and our full attention.
In a world where you can be anything, be like Papa Brian!
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