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Engr | PM | Obidient 🇳🇬 Engineering a New Nigeria 🏗️ | Analyzing politics & trends. | Arsenal 🔴 | Building systems and demanding accountability. John 3:16
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Look at the responses. This right here is one of the reasons why the dating pool in Nigeria is the way it is.
Many people don't know who they're dating because they don't even know themselves. You fear confrontation, so you swallow your feelings until you explode. You suck at communicating, dropping hints and expecting mind reading. You lack vulnerability, building walls and acting tough. You suffer low self esteem, accepting breadcrumbs and begging for attention. You can't let go, still emotionally married to someone from years ago. You're always on panic mode, treating every delayed text or emoji like a disaster.
Then you go and meet another unhealed person, and you both project your traumas on each other. 😂 Anxious meets avoidant. One chases, one runs. One feels suffocated, one feels abandoned. You trigger each other's deepest wounds and call it passion.
You don't even know how much attachment styles influence people. You don't know why you panic, why you run, why you can't trust, why you can't let go. So you repeat the same patterns, date the same people, have the same fights, cry the same tears.
The dating pool is a mess because the people in it are unhealed and unaware😂😂
Max The Airbnb Guy🏡Best Shortlets@Maxtheairbnbguy
People calling him a fool, calm down. 😂 The guy doesn't even know he has an anxious attachment style. He is not choosing to be desperate. He is reacting from a deep, unconscious fear of abandonment & unhealed trauma. You hear his friend advising him to move on else he'll keep being in a loop. The girl is clearly avoidant. She leaves when things get close and comes back when the pressure is off. She breaks up quickly because vulnerability feels dangerous. Not because she is cold. Because someone taught her that depending on people leads to disappointment. Both are unhealed. 😂 He clings. She runs. He chases. She flees. They are not villain and victim. They are two wounded people triggering each other's deepest fears. They can work on themselves & make things work if they desire. It's very workable.
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People calling him a fool, calm down. 😂 The guy doesn't even know he has an anxious attachment style. He is not choosing to be desperate. He is reacting from a deep, unconscious fear of abandonment & unhealed trauma. You hear his friend advising him to move on else he'll keep being in a loop.
The girl is clearly avoidant. She leaves when things get close and comes back when the pressure is off. She breaks up quickly because vulnerability feels dangerous. Not because she is cold. Because someone taught her that depending on people leads to disappointment.
Both are unhealed. 😂 He clings. She runs. He chases. She flees. They are not villain and victim. They are two wounded people triggering each other's deepest fears. They can work on themselves & make things work if they desire. It's very workable.
SKB@seyikanbai
Korty asked Kenny and Halimah to call their friends and say, “I hooked up with my ex.” The responses were priceless 😂📞
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Arteta dy behave like mumu at times
Rolexy 💡@itz_rolexy23
Kai played as 10 against City, we were dominated in the midfield. We lost the final. Here is it again, against a team we should finish in the first half. When will Arteta face the reality and stop using or forcing Kai as 10? When?????????💔💔💔💔💔
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You Deserve Relationships That Feel Safe‼️🔥❤️
Love isn’t supposed to make you question your worth. It shouldn’t feel like a guessing game, a performance or a tightrope walk. If you’re constantly anxious, doubting or shrinking to keep the peace, that’s not love. That’s survival.
Real love feels like an exhale. It’s steady, not chaotic. It offers reassurance, not confusion. It makes space for your voice, your needs, your fears not just your strengths. You deserve to be held, not handled. To feel safe, not scrutinized.
The right connection doesn’t demand perfection. It invites truth. It listens. It stays. Stop normalizing uncertainty.
You don’t have to earn love by enduring discomfort. Choose the kind of relationship that allows you to breathe. That is love. That is safety. That is home.
Be guided accordingly. 👏
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“You are voting a k!ller system into power.... I saw a bl00d thirsty army of men coming in to cause massacre” - Bishop David Oyedepo
He warned us, and now you try to blame the Pastors.... Okay nah
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The truth spoken here by Pastor Chris
Theclaville@theclaville
Stop wasting your time on marriage seminars, get the WORD inside you!
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We’ve been conditioned to see breakups as a sign that we are "the problem" or somehow "cursed."But when you see God as a Father, the perspective shifts: It’s not a punishment; it’s an intervention. A Father doesn't just watch His child walk into a mistake—He closes the door because He insists you deserve His best.Rejection is often just God’s way of saying: "I love you too much to let you settle for this.
Viral Gospel@viralgospelhq
God is my Daddy!
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Martin Zubimendi has withdrawn from the Spain International team and will return to Arsenal.
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On this Palm Sunday, President Trump shared his letter from Franklin Graham explaining the only path to Heaven is through Jesus, our Savior.
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.@POTUS on Iran: We destroyed many targets today, and we're negotiating with them directly and indirectly. They gave us 20 big boats of oil going through the Hormuz Strait, and that‘s taking place starting tomorrow morning, over the next couple of days.
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This is the best relationship advice of the year 2026 ! Don't skip u need it .
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This video will never get old.
The gospel of Jesus Christ explained in 1 minute.
You need to share this with everyone and save for later.
Check out the quoted video too it’s powerful 🔥
KAT@reallKAT
John piper attempt to define “SIN” and I’ve never thought of it this way. Watch this and save it.🔥
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