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@blixxt
you have to lose your mind to come to your senses
Perth Entrou em Ekim 2021
470 Seguindo66 Seguidores

@rylanderjohan hade det inte varit offside hade linjedomaren ej blåst. Sluta nu
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If you validate someone, you win the argument.
Most people think listening means nodding.
It does not.
Real validation is surgical:
1. Repeat their exact words back
Not your interpretation. Their language.
2. Name the emotion they have not said
Frustrated. Overwhelmed. Dismissed.
3. Separate their feeling from their solution
You can hear anger without funding the terrible idea it produced.
Here is what changes:
They stop defending.
They stop repeating.
They stop needing to be right.
Because being heard kills the need to convince.
You never said they were correct → you said they were real.
This works in:
– Negotiations where both sides are dug in
– Relationships where you are both tired
– Sales calls when the prospect is emotional
The sentence that ends fights:
It sounds like you feel X because of Y.
Then you wait.
No rebuttal. No fix. No pivot to your point.
Just silence.
They will either confirm or correct you.
Either way, the temperature drops.
Agreement is optional.
Feeling understood is not.
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@flocko Your bitch doesn’t care that he has a dead end job. She just sees an alpha that buddy-mogged you, has a sick ponytail, and can hook her up with free endless shrimp.
It couldn’t be more over.
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Americans don’t have free healthcare because we have to fight Israel’s wars or else the Mossad will release the videos they have of our politicians screwing kids
Gabor Gurbacs@gaborgurbacs
Iran is about to find out why Americans don’t have free healthcare.
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@WhiteHouse You fucking retards bombed 7 countries in a year
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