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Olamilekan Samuel, MD🍃

Olamilekan Samuel, MD🍃

@doctrLakes

•Believer •Full of light •Medical Doctor •Leadership Strategist •Public Administrator •Member, CMDA Nigeria •Lover of Sound Teachings and Judgements!⚖️✨

Lagos, Nigeria Entrou em Ekim 2020
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Olamilekan Samuel, MD🍃
I did something while serving as President on campus Once in a while, I reach some of my executives who are likely to see this tweet and ask them for feedbacks When I found many won’t say exactly their mind, I created Google forms and had all my executives fill and give a feedback of my leadership and this I did per time Truth is, it wasn’t all sweet reading the feedbacks but I was more excited they gave feedbacks and took out a diary to note everything said with plans to do better It was anonymous but having a personal relationship with all my executives, I actually knew what everyone said just by reading each of the feedbacks and I didn’t take any personal, both the one with praises that should reach my brain and the ones that said I keep them too long in meetings Every progressive leader should desire feedbacks, moreso when they are constructive and a common denominator. If you trash them out, you are the problem
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TheOluwaseyiE@TheOluwaseyiE·
@doctrLakes @buodataye Oh please. Let’s stop acting like everything is black and white. You know how many decently dressed women are being catcalled daily and are referred to as Ashawo causs they refuse to answer?
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Bùòdá Táyé
Bùòdá Táyé@buodataye·
This does not validate the “All men are rapist” people get uncomfortable because it does not describethem or their personality. Not as an insult, but if out of nowhere I call you a “prostitute” will you accept it because others see it as a source of livelihood? No! You will not.
TheOluwaseyiE@TheOluwaseyiE

Let’s be honest, people only suddenly care about “generalization” when it makes them uncomfortable.😂 We group people all the time. When it’s the government or APC members nobody pauses to say “not all of them.” It becomes “they are doing this” and everyone understands the context. When violence happens and it’s tied to religion, you hear statements like “Muslims are killing Christians”. In those moments, nuance disappears, and what people respond to is the pattern and the fear it creates. So let’s not pretend this is a new concept. Now imagine being on the receiving end of that fear. That’s where women are. When women move with caution around men, it’s not an attempt to label every man the same. It’s a response to patterns, experiences, and the very real risk that we cannot always predict. And please, stop the false equivalence. Comparing this to saying “all women are prostitutes” doesn’t even hold. Prostitution—right or wrong—is seen by some as a means of survival or a profession. Rape is violence. It is harm. It is a violation. It is not a lifestyle, not a hustle, not a mistake in judgment. So that comparison already collapses.

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Olamilekan Samuel, MD🍃
@TheOluwaseyiE @buodataye There is actually something called the dressing of a harlot If you dress like a lawyer and you’re referred to as one, I don’t see a problem If you dress like a harlot and you are referred to as one, I don’t see a problem
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TheOluwaseyiE@TheOluwaseyiE·
Let’s not act like this doesn’t already happen in reverse. How many times do men look at a woman, judge how she’s dressed, and immediately label her “ashawo”? Men do this all the time. This right here is the same generalization you’re trying to call out. So it’s a bit inconsistent to suddenly draw a moral line only when the conversation makes you uncomfortable. And even if we follow your argument, it still doesn’t hold.
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Übermensch@AshrafOmeiza·
Doctor on call watching 3rd set nurses hand over since the call started.
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Fola Gideon
Fola Gideon@Afolasakin01·
Once you have a "men bad, women good" philosophy, it seeps into serious issues like doctrine.
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TheOluwaseyiE@TheOluwaseyiE·
See as body of Christ dey do for tl😂😂
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LEYE@leyeConnect·
First, I completely agree with your stance on not being offended by being blocked. I’m not offended either, especially when I haven’t conducted myself in a way unbecoming of a decent human being or a Christian. Second, one key attribute of a man is courage: the courage to allow for and listen to dissenting opinions without bias or prejudice; the courage to endure insults without being moved; the courage to stand against popular ideologies even at the cost of being unpopular. It is also the courage to remain silent and disengage when dealing with bad faith actors, not to go band for band or resort to blocking sprees, but to exercise restraint, holding on to the hope that people can be redeemed, no matter how flawed they may seem in the moment. Third, we cannot block everyone who disagrees with us. Part of being a man is developing mental fortitude, learning not to wilt or break at every point of confrontation. We are not flaky. How do you preach to, or hope to redeem, people you have completely shut out? Or have you written them off entirely? In the same vein, how do you guard against breeding sycophancy among your circle if dissent is punished? If no one can tell you you’re wrong without consequence, what then keeps you grounded? Finally, this is why I don’t think it’s simply a matter of “he has a right to block…and others should introspect.” It is not a we vs them thing. Strictly speaking, within a Christian framework, such a person should not be allowed speak to men, for he fails to embody the very qualities that defines a Christian man. A Christian man doesn’t pander, we are stones not wind-vanes. BTW I absolutely adore your music and thank you for your work I do not say this lightly 🤲.
Nosa@nosaalways

I have been blocked by someone I thought we were brothers, but I never once questioned his status as a believer or minister. While I believe it is extreme or an abuse of “power” it is also used as protective measure, still it’s not enough to question whether someone is a “kingdom man.” The people who are hurt and calling for his soft cancelation also to do some introspection.

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Olamilekan Samuel, MD🍃
@RealDonaldDoo 😂😂 So I guess you get the logic and plenty talks Imagine attending a conference where the speaker has you and half of the participants blocked because one of your perspective online offended him
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Donald@RealDonaldDoo·
If you block me, and we see outside X and you try to act like it’s just an online thing. You’re definitely a mad person. No let me nod you.
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Olamilekan Samuel, MD🍃
Actually, if you’ve pass through men’s mentorship, one of the top expectations of an ideal man is responsibility and accountability Accountability is built upon the premise of a consistent ability to take feedbacks, have progressive debates and listen to dissenting perspectives that does not pull you down. Men are not moved by many words and sermons, we actually see what you do and get inspired more than what you preach and I don’t want a man who can’t take basic feed backs teaching men how to be men. Go sort this pride first If you are consistently opposed to this publicly and privately in the dm, right parallels and assumptions can be drawn that you are simply a man who loves the applause and praise of men, only listening to what you want to hear and you are not one to be considered accountable and shouldn’t be speaking to men if you can’t take basic comments and feedbacks not aimed at pulling you down No serious person should be supporting this by the way and if you are close to him or consider yourself friend enough you should be able to slip to his dm to say “but baba, how far these thing they are saying na…” We are men and here we don’t do “girls’ girl”
Ernesto 💫@DibiaErnesto

The funny thing with this whole KK situation is that there are stronger arguments as to why he probably should not be speaking at a men’s conference. But blocking people on Twitter is not one of them. 🫵🏽

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Olamilekan Samuel, MD🍃
Considering how easy it is to host a successful women’s conference, this shouldn’t be hard Invite him and don’t worry about the panderers, you need not invite them, they will be there
Ayotunde Martins@AyotundeMartin_

If you women love kunle Kenny so much, organize your own conference and invite him. Why are you guys forcing kunle Kenny on christian men, them talk say them no want. Even my boys in secondary school will do a better job on what being a real man is than Kunle.

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