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i used to think communication was a key until i realized comprehension is. you can communicate all you want with someone but if they don’t understand you or refuse to understand, communication is useless.

I heard a therapist say, “Your feelings are always valid, your behavior is not.” She explained by saying feel what you feel BUT you need to be accountable for what you do as a result of those feelings.

@shedrinkswater Not sure I follow the logic here - why would a highly emotionally, intelligent man desire to be in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t match that emotional intelligence? Seems like it’s incredibly draining and exhausting for him to put up with any performative bullshit.

Major cheat code for life: Learn to delay your reaction. Anger, fear, and impulse will try to make you move fast. There's power in pausing. In the pause, you see clearly, you respond wisely, and you avoid decisions you’ll regret. Slow down to speed up.

Imagine Allah smiling at your delusional duas and saying, “Kun fa-yakūn” (كُنْ فَيَكُونُ).

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@meinmokhtar Kalau dia dah bagi, dah serah pun kat anak anak sebelum meninggal tu dah jadi hak anak sebab dah lucut hak dia. Tak ada isu faraid pun. Lain kalau dia kata 'nanti kalau dia meninggal, bagi bla bla bla.' Tu jadi wasiat. Tak terpakai. Kena faraid.

Pegawai tu kerja mana?

Never get too attached to anyone unless they feel the same way about you, because one sided expectations can mentally drain you.

@jllmisai Belum lagi kes kalau dilanggar public transport. Teksi atau bas. Kalau teksi/bas bersalah sekalipun, owner tetap kena claim insurance sendiri dan hilang NCD. Rule bodoh yang BNM tetapkan.

@jllmisai Ni memang loophole car insurance Malaysia ni. Insurance default coverage kalau terbukti pesalah tu mabuk/dadah. Nak fight tak boleh sebab BNM sendiri yang buat rule tu. Mangsa boleh proceed dengan saman sivil pada pesalah. Kena Repair sendiri dan saman tuntut kerugian semula

Selain yang meninggal dunia tu, pemilik kereta Myvi biru ni juga adalah mangsa dalam kejadian tu.. Selain trauma, keretanya juga dikatakan terpaksa dibaiki guna duit sendiri sebab pihak insurans kereta pemandu mabuk tu tak nak tanggung.. Ni mesti adjuster punya akalan..🤔

Saya sangat suka dengan cara Nabi ﷺ ajar kita untuk menjadi tenang dengan ketidakpastian. Nabi ﷺ ajar kita supaya kita kawal apa yang kita mampu, apa yang tidak mampu kawal kita serah kepada Allah. قَالَ رَجُلٌ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَعْقِلُهَا وَأَتَوَكَّلُ أَوْ

❝I have never regretted my silence, but I have often regretted my speech.❞ Umar ibn al-Khattab رضي الله عنه

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Your sabr will always be tested with what your heart yearns for the most, and that’s the hardest part.

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