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"believe the victim" until the abuser is someone popular so now you have to pull out the victimblaming
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do y'all like
actually realize how heartbreaking it is to see people saying the more "harmful" symptoms of your disorder (BPD) makes a victim with the same disorder less believable?
like.
that just feels like I can never tell anyone if I've been hurt like this either.
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white people be defending rapists if that means they get to play their shitty roblox game for another 2 days
dazed daze@dazed_dazee
"nobody is gonna know"
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@nullxiety_ ???? from all of the screenshots shown in the document, can you not deduct for yourself that what you are looking at is indeed, fawning????? what the fuck are you even on about
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@riskstatistics i know what fawning is, and even if she described it that way herself, that's still her interpretation after the fact. it doesn't automatically prove abuse, it just explains how she sees her own behavior, not direct evidence of what actually happened.
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do you guys also think its odd to ask for proof of SA, screenshots are literally literally enough dude
Ricecakes@InTeaSoul
“Ren doesnt have any proof that it was sa-“ Full detail of what happened, pictures of the dm and the aftermath, the injuries, Zeal’s friends (talking about Zerum, Kat, and Wil) immediately threw him under the bus and state they don’t support him. And zeal, he has nothing.
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@nullxiety_ no, you don’t understand, from all of your replies to me ALONE you do not understand 😭
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@riskstatistics don't get emotional now, i understand that victims don't always react in a perfect way, and im not denying that. i'm just saying that interpretations of behavior or context clues aren't the same as clear evidence of abuse in this specific case
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@nullxiety_ victims are not perfect and will not react the way that you “expect” them to. you have never been in the place of a victim and it shows from all of your tone deaf comments. educate yourself
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@nullxiety_ for a 19 year old, you certainly cannot think for yourself and put together context clues. if you had actually analyzed the document instead of skimming it (which i can tell that you have) you would actually understand ren’s viewpoint and why she reacted the way that she did
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@nullxiety_ the reaction that ren had shown in their encounters was very clear of fawning, this was also stated by ren herself. educate yourself on what fawning is and what it looks like.
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@nullxiety_ you are not “stating the facts” you are actually delusional and willing to sacrifice every bit of common sense that you could possibly have just for a sick manipulative bastard.
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@nullxiety_ how do you imagine victims, really? do you think every victim of sexual assault will act the same way?
this is why so many victims dont come out, people like you are so desperate to prove that they are liars. you do realize that reports of false rape and sa cases are rare?
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@riskstatistics the entire document is her excusing herself and a lot of discord screenshots that show they had consensual sex, thats it, no one can prove she was assaulted nor we can prove he didnt do it.
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